Greetings, first timer here.
I've been lurking in the red pill for a while and I have questions if you'd be so inclined to answer. I've been picking up my life since quarantine began, this includes trying to get girls. I want a relationship, casual sex does not interest me. My area does not lend to this mindset well. I know places like the gym are a good meeting spot. I work out regularly, have been for months. I started with a skinny runner's body so I have some decent musculature + skinny abs. I have money, in the way that someone who works a minimum wage job and doesn't spend much on frivolities has money. I wear boots, fitting jeans and shirts, and a surplus military jacket that isn't threatening. My face is mostly clean, clean shaven, and I've been told I have a good jaw, chin, and eyes. I sometimes hit on girls, and I've gotten numbers each time, but most either tell me they have a boyfriend or are lesbians later. Funny I know. I'm wondering where I go from here.
Read More@Zavss Thanks for the reply, I definitely should try asking out more women for practice's sake. Not sure I have status though. Problem is that most of the women around me are what some may call "trap queens". The few times I have gone for a number, I run into the same problem as before, taken, by a man or woman. Just a numbers and waiting game then huh? Thanks again man.
@slutmagazine That's probably my worst front. I don't follow pop culture or television whatsoever, so when I run out of fitness topics to talk about my autism starts to surface. I'll take your word to try and introduce more complex subjects. Do I just let women talk themselves out? When screening women, I specifically avoid women who dress like that, which invalidates a vast majority of women here. Ironically my screening has brought me lesbians. While I do screen my choices, the choices I'm left with often have little in common with me.
Greetings, first timer here.
I've been lurking in the red pill for a while and I have questions if you'd be so inclined to answer. I've been picking up my life since quarantine began, this includes trying to get girls. I want a relationship, casual sex does not interest me. My area does not lend to this mindset well. I know places like the gym are a good meeting spot. I work out regularly, have been for months. I started with a skinny runner's body so I have some decent musculature + skinny abs. I have money, in the way that someone who works a minimum wage job and doesn't spend much on frivolities has money. I wear boots, fitting jeans and shirts, and a surplus military jacket that isn't threatening. My face is mostly clean, clean shaven, and I've been told I have a good jaw, chin, and eyes. I sometimes hit on girls, and I've gotten numbers each time, but most either tell me they have a boyfriend or are lesbians later. Funny I know. I'm wondering where I go from here.
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Read More@hannulv I would need to spin plates to know how to eventually discern a real LTR? Then when I hit my thirties, I should have enough money, status, looks, and experience to finally get one? It seems like I'll get getting someone's leftovers at 30 unless I go teeny bopping. Thanks for your post, this one is a different perspective than the other replies.
@Zavss Don't know much about the specifics about music, but to me it feels like the song went on too long. your singing style is strong but got drawn out by the end.
@hannulv With this, you make me reconsider even interacting with women. You’re right, I do want a virgin, I want someone exclusive and that is a tall order that becomes rarer by the day. Just some exclusivity would be nice. If I’m not in it for the casual sex, I don’t see a reason to play the game. I’m okay with just accumulating looks, money, and status at this point, sounds like i’ll be off a lot better if I do.
@Mumisnotokay Aside from their availability, and how realistic it is for me to get one (not very!), like @Zavss says, I'd like to teach. It was never about the sex to me, ever. I really don't care if she can suck me dry, or if she'll give me a second circumcision, as long as she's willing to learn. I don't mind starting at the bottom, as long as the skys the limit. I take my zinc, I eat my celery, I hope I can get the same sort of effort out of her.
@Mumisnotokay might be bro science, but purportedly helps you nut along with zinc and L-Arginine
@hannulv I'll concede that without sexual status, it will be hard to hold a woman down. I've watched some Rollo so I'll look at 'The Rational Male'. Honestly though the way you describe women makes them sound like they're all a dime a dozen indolent whores who can't keep their basic values in check. If this is true, I don't see why they deserve me, or why I should invest so much in game if they are this draining. Why not just keep investing in myself, seems a lot easier.