@Problematic_Browser the lesson here is don’t be a doughy manlet.
@AFTSOV yeah that was half a joke, but my results and lay quality got significantly better after I got a fairly big, noticeable tattoo. Maybe it was just a coincidence but I’ve been told it had something to do with it. I also started wearing cooler clothes and a little bit of jewellery so who knows. Maybe it’s changed the way I see myself and that’s the reason, I’ve been working on taking pussy off the pedestal over that time too so who knows. It definitely makes my style/personality look more sincere. Perhaps YMMV.
@AlphaBetaCuck tbh the books aren’t worth a fuck until you go fail, make sure you’re not using them as a buffer.
Some unsolicited advice from someone who choked on the pill for way too long before getting zeroed out and finally swallowing it:
You’ll only get game concepts properly once you experiment (fail) enough to have internalised them, mostly.
Don’t go into a set with a plan, go in with a vibe and let yourself be fluid.
Reflection is your friend, get a journal and write down how you fucked up and what you did well, then eliminate the fuck ups one at a time.
Anxiety is also your friend, once I started treating my anxiety as if it were right instead of ignoring it and trying to ‘fake it till I made it’ I started seeing major positive changes. As Goggins says: if you’re not real and raw with who the fuck you are, nothings gonna change.
It’s a slog at the start but the better you get, the faster you get better.
Get a tattoo. Bitches love tattoos.
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