Unfortunately you just have to let them do what they're gonna do. You can't save them all

Everyone has heard of Captain save a hoe but honestly there are way too many captain save a bro situations that you shouldn't be getting yourself into

I would hate to see a friend off himself over a bitch but they will hate you for trying to save them.

I'm about close to losing this friend trying to help him. He asked me to keep certain women his ex was jealous of away from him and everything

Just to be mad at me for telling him the truth. In general avoid your compromised down bad friends. They will eventually disappoint you

Another valuable reason to limit red knighting your down bad blue pill friends, apart from them hating you for it, instead of being able to soberly see that you are actually the best help they have ever received, it's rather quite simple:

If it came down to it, they would absolutely throw you under the bus for mediocre pussy abusing them.

I have no doubt in my mind, after everything this friend experienced, dumped and all, that he would sacrifice me on the alter for mediocre snatch without a second thought

Don't red Knight your down bad friends. They are compromised as is. They would let a disrespectful bitch run your fate through their friendship than listen to any actual lifesaving advice

Update 2:

We agreed to never exchange advice again

You cannot help down bad men. He got upset I spoke negatively of his ex, who he is determined to wait for as she samples cacks while he stays celibate for a relationship that is never coming back

You CANNOT help these men. That is the only reason I'm sharing this story. If you guys think you can red Knight your terminally down bad friends you are wrong

I knew this wouldn't work. I felt obligated to help him because he's been borderline suicidal about it. But beyond that I knew the end result would be agreeing not to talk about it

They will only hate you for being honest and they will seek bad advice because it feels good

Update on not red knighting your blue pill friends:

He's still too far gone. His ex girl is probably meeting and fucking other men as we speak because she wasn't fucking him for a few months and was going places without telling him where and he wasn't asking

She definitely isn't asexual and he is in denial that she will come back because her breakup spiel was "it's not you it's me and I need to work on myself first". Bro falls for literal womanese

I reached out to see if he's okay and he's texting female friends he knows apologizing for random shit and self destructing. I told him to stop and it and he just won't listen

Some men are just terminally down bad. You quite literally can't help them and it has deeply compromised them

Periodic reminder that you CANNOT help your down bad blue pill friends

My friend got broken up with in his dead bedroom relationship, was over texting her when she wasn't putting any effort, and then just dumped him.

Been trying to help him cope and he has decided he is worthless and deserves to be treated like shit

Will not listen to any counter examples whatsoever and is waiting for her to take him back

I've said everything I can to tell him she was trash and treated him like shit and he doesn't care

You cannot help guys with their mouth stuck to the tit of the matrix they're in. It's pointless

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@Kloi

Right, I think the average women is years more experienced than the average man by far

A 20-something-year-old woman easily has comparable or more experience to a 30-something-year-old man

@Vermillion-Rx

That doesn't really take away from the fact the average man grossly underestimates how much dick the average woman (your middle group in the above break down) really takes.

By 25 most of those girls are going to have a body count in the 20s-30s depending on when they started fucking and how bad their post break up slutting really is.

In comparison most men by 25 are likely in the single digits.

I think the main issue wraps back around to the average man not fully grasping how accessible dick really is to even a below average woman is. Coupled with the idea women aren't into fucking because that's probably what their experiences have demonstrated.

@SwarmShawarma

Makes sense