@TiberiusBravo87 Don't pay them any mind. You want to be healthy and fit, you want to feel good and confident about yourself. Who are they to say you can't? The way you put it they are pretty much saying they want you to stay unhealthy, and that's not what family or friends should think. I'm not saying you need to cut them out, you may want to have a talk with them - it is possible they are just scared to be "fatphobic" or whatever the fuck else (the fact my browser marked fatphobic as a typo makes me really happy lol). I don't understand nor like their mindset. You are telling your loved one not to improve themselves and settle down with being unhappy in their own body - what fucking sense does that make? Focus on yourself and your needs as much as you can as a spouse and parent, if you are mentally and physically ready to start making those improvements, do it - if noone supports it, do it for yourself.
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@sleepyhousewife Even when I am out of shape I am not "positive" about it. Family told me I was fine, friends said it was my look, I said hell no it's not healthy. I know it's bad for me, I strive to avoid it so being like that was a failure and constantly pissed me off being in such a state. After my boy was born I started trimming down, 8lbs down so far. But I'm pissed because that's 8lbs I'm losing again. I have been told I am too hard on myself and it's almost to the point of brow-beating, but it's the way I did it last time.
youtu.be/a4mqaldnsn4 Why is it so hard to eat less and move more? Why is it that there are no decent clothing for sale in stores, other than thrift stores? Why do females advertise their fatness and promiscuity? I am so angry that I cannot say these things publicly. This forum is the only place I can protest openly against the modern world!