Spouse no, girlfriends yes. I've even had plates pry into my personal journals/notes.
None of them have reacted negatively, most of them have pushed the thoughts verbally but concluded my line of thought was correct but feels inappropriate.
As for testing, mehhhh. More so calibrating my own game with each passing relationship I get a little softer/give less fucks without being such an ass about it.
@Typo-MAGAshiv "I bet you boys are loving it outside in the sun today while I am stuck in that office" "Oh yes sir we surely do love a bit of sun"
I understand. Need to have @redpillschool fix it when he sees these notifications
To vermy, magashiv and all the old farts on here. Have you ever talked redpill with your spouses or tested ideas you read here on them, and how did they go?
@Vermillion-Rx thanks. Its still happening. I mainly cant reply to posts by other users. And it seems like it'll time out if i mention another user
I think most guys misunderstand Frame because they don't even know what they want.
If you don't know what you want, how the fuck is anyone supposed to be in your frame?
Guys obsess over holding Frame while simultaneously wanting plates, exclusivity, unlimited options, loyalty, excitement, peace, commitment, and zero compromises. Life doesn't work like that.
The longer I date, the more convinced I become that you can't have your cake and eat it too.
The women who gave me the most excitement rarely gave me the most peace.
The women who gave me the most peace rarely gave me the most excitement.
Every choice comes with tradeoffs.
Frame isn't just enforcing boundaries. It's knowing what you actually want and being honest about the tradeoffs required to get it. Once you've figured that out, enforcing boundaries becomes the easy part. The hard part was deciding what mattered to you in the first place.
Read MoreI posted this same meme last summer, but I'm posting it again.
It's so fucking hot lately that my brain just isn't working right.
That, along with higher RL priorities, has been causing me not to do much on the dot reds beyond mod and admin stuff.
I'll rejoin the various conversations sometime. In the meantime, ugh.
I hate this time of year. I can't wait for fall and winter.
