I suspect this represents the outcome of various PUA and Manosphere figures one upping each other into a hyperbolic extreme.
That's exactly what it is.
50 girls before marriage.
I suspect this represents the outcome of various PUA and Manosphere figures one upping each other into a hyperbolic extreme.
The real advice for young men today, goes Don't MARRY the first woman you sleep with!
If that ever served the interests of men, it became obsolete by around the late 50s..
There exist edge cases and exceptions, but odds run hard against lucking a bona-fide Unicorn into your bed the first time out. It takes experience and reps to learn that Unicorns don't exist, then to replace naive idealism with a SMP version of Realpolitik.
Yes, LTRs hold advantages over hookup culture. But, the counterpoint to this for a young man who aspires to the Marriage and Family life, faces a distinct disadvantage in the marriage marketplace if he passes 25 with just 1 or 2 LTR notches in his bed post.
Divorce laws as they stand, make the stakes dangerously high, selecting a wife candidate with more blind trust than actual experience.
@Typo-MAGAshiv I guess it really comes down to how well do we spend our time. I agree with you
I've had a much more pleasant experience when I was into social dance, and I would recommend men to try it.
Maybe because the scene in my city centered around dance schools and their parties, and the instructors usually monitored and discouraged extreme behavior in there.
It might also have to do with the kind of dance, e.g. I expect Latin to have more cluster B's than Rock 'n' Roll or Tango. It might also have to do with Europe vs the US.
teeling other guys to focus on getting the money before them girls,
Bad advice.
Men should practice game as soon as they learn about it because nothing teaches and hones skill like experience.
All the manosphere dudes who say shit like "don't date until you're 30" or "don't date until you make [arbitrary yearly income]" or other such crap are setting men up for failure.
Because if you're 30, have your finances in order, but zero experience with women, guess what that makes you?
Easy pickings for Epiphany Phase women who have "had their fun" and are "ready to settle down" with a beta bucks.
@Vermillion-Rx Yeah, I totally second this, based on my young experiences in the 80s, going to "nicer" clubs in the 80s. The whole thing reminded me of the joke about the cop approaching a drunk walking back and forth under a streetlamp who said he's searching for his keys. The friendly cop asks where did you lose them? Down the block he says, but the light is much better right here. I was raised in an intact household to treat women respectfully, but my age cohort was the first wave of children of easy divorce. Over and over, I'd ask some girl to dance, and she'd look me up and down quickly and give some noncommittal response if not outright reject me. Then, I'd see that same girl on the dance floor a minute later with a total Compton hood rat. That environment favors the more flamboyant and aggressive end of the male population. Inexperienced and nonassertive guys like I was back then, can't compete well in dance clubs.
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv I guess, what really hit home was the 50 girls before marriage. I mean, c'mon, it's just wayy too mucho.
I am a medical professional, and I am extremely aware of just how easy it is to get an STD, even from just kisssing :v So far I have been lucky...
Hypothetical History Rant: Monday Edition.
If Germany had never opened its borders to Jewish people, the Holocaust would never have happened.
If the US had never brought Africans here, there would have been no slavery, no racism, no ghettoes, and no calls for reparations. Gun violence, rape, murder, assault, and inner city poverty would be close to zero.
If Sweden had deported Barbara Lerner Spectre and her friends the moment she made that infamous video; rapes and assaults would be a fraction of what they are now across Europe.
How stunningly beautiful would the world have been without these HUGE mistakes. Lax borders, empathy for troubled people, and the North Atlantic slave trade.
Imagine would could have otherwise been. Just close your eye and imagine.
White people are truly stupid.
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