The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
screwing all your doors and windows shut from the INSIDE only to wake up and find that crazy bitch has broken into your house
You gotta admit, the fact she got in is impressive. That's a different level of dedication to the relationship.
there are times I miss the excitement that stems from all the drama off a toxic woman/lifestyle in general
I see that not as a feature but a flaw in your claimed tastes in women.
Wait till you're 3 restraining order hearings in, and screwing all your doors and windows shut from the INSIDE only to wake up and find that crazy bitch has broken into your house yet AGAIN, to tell us something like oh yeah some drama and toxicity in a woman is exciting!
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@Kloi The trick is to sit on the periphery.
I like my plates with a bit of edge to them. I cannot stand boring women.
Inevitably that means their lives are full of drama, but they know the deal. I will observe their drama from afar, but if it enters my domain they are gone.
Whamen love their goddamn shenanigans
Not going to lie, there are times I miss the excitement that stems from all the drama off a toxic woman/lifestyle in general buttttttttttt I can't ever imagine putting myself through all the baggage that comes from said lifestyle.
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@Kloi I get what you're saying, and I agree with you. Women with more wholesome hobbies are, generally speaking, green flags. But you gotta take in the wider context and vet them good.
It is only one bench mark used to gage how much shenanigans they'll bring to my life.
Whamen love their goddamn shenanigans
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Still demonstrably better than the alternatives regardless
Yeah she was quite friendly up front but i have no idea what trauma triggers she might have or whatever surprises there were in store
Probably better off having enjoyed the interactions empty handed than whatever psycho stuff was in store
Dude girls are just getting very bitchy. I've noticed a change in bitch grade over the years myself
I don't remember girls being this bitchy when I was in high school or college over 10 years ago
To quote @bozza
It's a good sign
At the end of the day, I'll always pick a girl who's idea of a ladies night is board games and wine, a day hike with the gal pals or sitting around a fire pit versus ones that get all dolled up to go clubbing.
The former demonstrate an interest plus booze, the later shows they don't have much in the ways of hobbies other than getting smashed and passed around.
It is only one bench mark used to gage how much shenanigans they'll bring to my life.
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@Kloi It's a good sign, but doesn't necessarily mean anything.
Girl I was plating would meet up with her friends for a few glasses of wine and play board games. Same kinda thing. All good, respectable people.
She was one of the biggest and most far-gone CC riders I've ever met.
Ties into that post I recent wrote. All signs would point to her being great LTR material. She was great a hiding it.
Was only when she got comfortable with me she started opening up about her sexual past, and when I say it was wild, that's an understatement.