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Canceled plan with a girl I work with and I think things might go south from here
Been talking with a girl I work with, she gave me a BJ, but didn’t do much after. She really wanted to hook up with me and we made plans to. However things didn’t as planned and it was canceled. Next day at she comes with a big hickey. To be honest, I am kinda angry with myself that we didnt hook up and it was partially my fault but what. Why a big noticeably hickey. How should I proceed?
Also I know about we shouldn’t hook up with people at work but this isn’t my career and neither is hers.
@somdevb Yeah, seems she want some foreign dick... prepare for that she will do it. If you are in the west all her friends will tell her that "your bf's opinion doesnt matter, you're a strong independent boygirl, follow your slut dreams hoe"
Absolutely break up if she does it.
I have no good advice on what to do now, just be prepared for the worst.
Potential LTR wants to go on solo trips in her 20s
So, I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months now. I'd like to believe I've maintained my frame quite well and has never given her any reason to see me not as the leader in the relationship. She normally is really accepting of my role as the leader and acts very feminine and submissive around me. I am genuinely happy with how things are now tbh. I've communicated my boundaries pretty well, and no matter how much I get called stubborn, I never give in.
She has been telling me about how she feels really dejected when I tell her about my plans of never getting married, to jokingly mention I might be a 'sugar daddy at 40' (subtly) and stuff. Since we are from a conservative country, she feels a bit insecure about how things would turn out with me.
More recently, she has been telling me about how she plans to not save much in her 20s, invest in herself, and try travelling solo as she always wanted. Me, being RP'd since the last one year, understands that this is a real red flag and immediately showed her the door.
I told her "Well, it's better just do it when you leave, shut the door".
I think she got it at the moment that I'm not gonna give up on my principles and even though she questioned me repeatedly about "WHY" and telling me that "I'll not cheat on you", I have been unmoved and told her that it's strictly against my principles. She does have a history with 2 guys, both long term. But from what I heard, when the last ended, she was on a trip with her friends, where she installed Tinder, and although she says and seems very likely that she didn't fuck anyone coz "she wasn't attracted to anyone there".
I know we just had a talk about all this, but from her Pinterest saves and Insta stories, it's pretty clear that she still hasn't given up on the idea completely. Is it really a time to leave her, or should I wait for the time when it actually happens? I'm pretty sure I won't let her be with me if she were to travel solo in the future.Read More
Just use kino.
Start with her hands, elbow, and arms. Is she's responsive you are now getting closer to pow town.
Then you got to isolate and then escalate.
You could ask her out on a date.
But if you see her in get togethers you can use those to leverage you into her pantie's.
When the time is right and you built up the kino. When shes at your house say you want to "Show her something". Then when you bring her in an isolated room look her in the eyes and go for the kiss. Then if everything goes right you'll be making out with her.
She may use LMR and ASD. But once you start making out you've lighted the flame.