Alright boys, here’s the short version: I used to think reading a stack of dating books would turn me into James Bond. Spoiler: it didn’t. What it did give me was a PhD in “theory” and about zero results in real life. Let’s just say I was basically the guy doing all the homework but never getting picked for the field trip.
Fast-forward a bit: after plenty of awkward dates, bad openers, and one or two “hug closes” (don’t ask), I finally started to get it. Turns out the game isn’t about memorizing 99 lines. More like becoming the guy who doesn’t even need them.
Now I’m working on all fronts: body, mind, wallet, and frame. Still mess up sometimes, but at least now the stories are funny and educational.
I’m here to swap war stories, share a laugh at the dumb stuff we all do, and maybe learn a trick or two from the veterans. If you’ve ever thought, “Damn, did I really just say that out loud?”,then we’re probably on the same wavelength.
See ya,
Flo.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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Alright boys, here’s the short version: I used to think reading a stack of dating books would turn me into James Bond. Spoiler: it didn’t. What it did give me was a PhD in “theory” and about zero results in real life. Let’s just say I was basically the guy doing all the homework but never getting picked for the field trip.
Fast-forward a bit: after plenty of awkward dates, bad openers, and one or two “hug closes” (don’t ask), I finally started to get it. Turns out the game isn’t about memorizing 99 lines. More like becoming the guy who doesn’t even need them.
Now I’m working on all fronts: body, mind, wallet, and frame. Still mess up sometimes, but at least now the stories are funny and educational.
I’m here to swap war stories, share a laugh at the dumb stuff we all do, and maybe learn a trick or two from the veterans. If you’ve ever thought, “Damn, did I really just say that out loud?”,then we’re probably on the same wavelength.
See ya,
Flo.
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