@Ordinary-Review730

i went through my girlfriend’s phone and found out she is planning to go to a party without telling me. what should i do now? should i tell her that i know she is going to a party? should i break up with her?

The choice is yours, but two things stand out here. First, young women get invited to parties a lot more than guys and oftentimes are given free or discounted admission. While young men, whether good looking or not, are expected to pay the full price of admission. Second, you strike me as having one-itis and should really deal with that, because that chick is a girlfriend, not your wife.

The real problem for your situation isn't that she might be going to a party you didn't know about, but that you don't seem to trust her. With you going through her phone to spy on her and not otherwise sharing what, if anything, she's actually done to provoke you to take these actions, that strikes me as the bigger problem. Read the book, you could use the help.

@Ordinary-Review730

O my girlfriend sometimes mentions male celebrities and say she has crush on them. how to tell her i don’t like this behavior without looking insecure?

On one hand, you have more evidence that your current girlfriend prefers guys, which is awesome. However, if she's mentioned these crushes several times in the past and you've never reacted to it before, or asked her questions to understand why she has these crushes, she may already think you don't care. Doing anything now would sort of kill the advantage this gives you.

That you're bringing up the matter after so much time begs us ask the question, why does it concern you now if it didn't the past few times she brought up the matter? Does she now have access to male celebrities that she didn't in the past or are you just uncomfortable with this topic of discussion? Honestly, this reads like a problem you can easily deflect by giving your girl a kiss on the cheek, letting her know this sounds like girl talk, and encouraging her to call up her girlfriends while you do something else.

In the meantime, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.