@Kloi I've had two plates now ask me to add them on social media. I did.
Now everytime I meet them they're subtly probing why I haven't been liking their posts or watching their stories.
Haven't seen them. "But I added you to my private story!". Oh right, didn't notice.
Hamster goes wild. It's funny.
Adding plates on social media, only to give them no attention whatsoever really makes the hamster go brrr.
@Bozza if she had said any of the "I'm a strong, independent woman!" crap, the "when are you taking me out to dinner" would have been a great opportunity to say something like "you're strong and independent, so why don't you take me out to dinner?"
When a chick gets that demanding at the beginning, may as well have some fun with it
Went to one of these "singles nights" tonight. Surprisingly, turned out to be a decent evening. Not much came of it but primary reason I went was to sharpen my approaches and frame.
Women vastly outnumbered men, and most of the men are complete betas. Which made things quite easy.
Most of the women were HB5 and of little interest, but there were some HB7 and HB8s in attendance.
Game plan was completely off. Idea was to work the crowd, establish pre selection and circle back. This kinda worked on the >HB7s. But the HB8s left pretty early and I should have number closed on the spot. Lesson learned.
Interestingly the HB6s and 7s shirt tested HARD. HB8s barely shit tested at all.
A HB7 invited me out to get drinks after the event which I went to. Good chat, good kino, good escalation. She then says "When are you taking me out for dinner" and suggests one of the more expensive places in town. I say I don't do dinner dates, but if she wants drinks that'll be great.
Well after a bit of shit testing and refusing the buckle. She accuses me of just trying to get her drunk and fuck her and storms out of the bar in a dramatic exit. Quite amusing honestly.
Probably good filtering. But I think in hindsight I probably should have flipped the frame back onto her and made a joke of it, rather than just setting the frame in stone.
Anyway, decent night tbf.
Read MoreBeing self employed is one of those where the main benefit is also the main con.
As you say, you work for yourself and put in what you get out, so you can earn a lot more money. But, all of the risk falls on you.
If the work dries up, you get sick, take holiday etc. all of that falls on you. You have to sort out your own pension and so on. So even though you earn significantly more money, there's also a lot more overhead as you have to save a lot of money away in the good times to ride you through the bad times.
But yeah bro, go for it. If you can set up your own firm and it's going well already why not grind at it. What exactly have you got to lose?
It's all fun until you fuck
The chase, the sexual tensions, the sneaking glance, catching her sneaking glances. I'd have to agree, especially when its over the course of a week or two of crossing paths.
Sex is fun, but I miss that connection I suppose.
After awhile of consistently being able to get laid, it's natural progression to up your standards and start looking for longer term partners, even if its just riding out the honey moon phase and sending them back to the abyss.
The sex is better, the dates are more enjoyable, I look forward to our down time together.
Welcome to being a romantic.
@Bozza her body, her choice, her consequences.
Memes aside though. Had a hinge date last night that went well. Easy lay so should be another plate in the rotation.
But honestly, it just feels so empty atm. It's all fun until you fuck, then the post nut clarity sets in and I'm just sat there feeling hollow. That's mostly my own hang ups from the relationship still residually in the background. Sex is fun, but I miss that connection I suppose. It will get better with time I'm sure.
Also feel bad that these women seem to fall in love with me almost immediately and you know they're just gonna be a plate.
This girl was really worried I was just gonna fuck and chuck. Spent so much time validating herself and seemed really self conscious. Guess she's been riding the CC for a while.
Every time I go through this cycle, I lose a little bit of my humanity.
I know I don't owe these women shit, and I can't change the world. But I still feel pity for them.
Read MoreSee where you fucked up was thinking 3 pumps is the safe pump count for not seeming invested but it's actually 1 and a half. One semi pump to show half effort and than one deep thrust to release your nut
2 full ones will have her wondering why you care so much about her pleasure instead of your own
What a simp.
If you don't use protection at all you are allowed 3 pumps. You done fucked up
