@Nattynutty I see. I was a bit confused as to what direction you were trying to take the relationship in.
Well done for reaching out for help and trying to deprogram yourself. We all need to do it.
@Nattynutty Not sure why you went from party, to bar, to now taking her out to an arcade. Do you want to date this girl? If not, I would go with B. If you do want to date her, C. A girl won't continually fuck you for free if she senses that you will date her or if she thinks you are below the fuck for free tier.
You need to learn to fight. Her tests are basically the same games she has learned from others that she is playing on you. If you pass the games and beat her at her own game, she knows that you are an alpha and can protect her. If you fail the games she puts infront of you, she knows you are weak. If you are way above her SMV she can't play these games on you, but if you are within her SMV she will do all the things above to make you prove your worth.
@Tempsyy Get as strong as you physically can (the most important advice). Learn game, read everything the in the red pill archives. Analyze what the meaning behind a girls message is. Understand that a girl is not playing checkers with you, she is playing chess. She is your enemy and only through knowing how to maneuver on the battlefield will you defeat her and earn her respect. You have to understand her, her intentions, what she is actually showing behind the facade. You have to know that they will lie about a lot of things to throw you off the fact that they are a slut. It's a jungle out there and the worst thing you can do for yourselves is to believe that a girl cares about you is telling you the truth. Always start from a place to non belief. They are trying to beat you by cucking you (if they can) and you have to stop yourself from getting cucked. You do that by developing discipline, gaining strength and then drawing boundaries for disrespect. You do that by learning the games that they have been playing since an infant, defend against it and at times attack on your own if you can. The anxiety is not bad that she gave you, it's a sign from your body to wake the fuck up and stop getting played. Your body is telling you hey, something's wrong here you okay up there in your brain? Wake up it's saying.
It's a fight between you and her and if you are not adept at fighting with other men mentally, you will get chewed up until you learn. You have to learn to be a master manipulator, learn how to fight with your mind or you will continually lose. It's a fight and you're losing and your body is trying to wake you up. You need to get to work studying, learning game, learning how to be political, learn how not submit and instead make her submit.
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