@Jocbro I got rejected yesterday. Feel the hurt, feeling is good. If you are getting a lot, do something that makes you feel better about yourself or try a different approach to things. It isn't personal you gotta be at the right place, at the right time. You never know what type a girl is into so you should always shoot your shot.
It's my birthday. I am now a 21 year old virgin. Should I just get it over with? Should I: a) ask my friend if he can give me some ugly thot's number so I can go to her apartment and f**k in exchange for some weed? b) Try to seduce my friend's roommate who might be into me (she prob is bpd tho) or c) keep improving myself/approaching and lose my virginity to a girl I actually like.
just did my first approaches. i met a girl called abigail who seemed in a hurry but she was smiling a lot and seemed flattered i talked to her but she had to leave quickly. the second girl was carrying a notebook and i asked her if she drew, she showed me some pictures and encouraged her to keep drawing more. she was 15 and im 20 so i didnt ask her for her number but i kinda wish i did now. i dont have any experiences with girls and she probably wouldve been good learning experience. i didnt get any #s but im super proud of myself. this shit isnt so hard and its motivating me to work on myself cause it proves that i am good enough and that there are women who might be interested in me. i have a whole journey ahead of me and i cant wait to talk to more women. thanks guys
Congratulations are definitely in order, then. You've mustered up the guts to talk to some girls you didn't know and while you didn't score phone numbers, you at least talked to them. That's a first step, so keep at it. If you've got a younger brother who's still in their mid teens, you should bring him along to see how it's done. If so, bring him along and introduce him to the younger girls in situations like those.
In the long term though, you should consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, but find money is an issue for you, you should be able to find copies through free torrent and ebook sites, but I won't say where you should start on that endeavor.
Read Morejust did my first approaches. i met a girl called abigail who seemed in a hurry but she was smiling a lot and seemed flattered i talked to her but she had to leave quickly. the second girl was carrying a notebook and i asked her if she drew, she showed me some pictures and encouraged her to keep drawing more. she was 15 and im 20 so i didnt ask her for her number but i kinda wish i did now. i dont have any experiences with girls and she probably wouldve been good learning experience. i didnt get any #s but im super proud of myself. this shit isnt so hard and its motivating me to work on myself cause it proves that i am good enough and that there are women who might be interested in me. i have a whole journey ahead of me and i cant wait to talk to more women. thanks guys
