@Guyandtheroadtovictory I didn't take any injections of testosterone. I was aware of my balding for about 7 years now but it is very slow although noticeable. I think it is mostly stress for me. The worst is when you are stressing about something all the time, it makes you sick, and you look like shit. Chronic stress, if i remember causes oxidation.
I have my conspiracy theory. We are meant to take action- if we don't we stress about it. And it kills us- it's either do it or you die slowly. It is so fucking true with everything. You can be like being on a date and talk what you feel like and be like "so I don't fuck on first date you know". Or you can be stressing about it, maybe she don't want, maybe it's too early, maybe I am ugly. And it fucks up everything. From the fact that it's weird you will look needy to slowly fucking dying inside and balding. But guess what, ever heard of "don't think about the red elephant" thing. Now she will think about sex. If you want you can still fuck her and just be playful about what you said before "oh I meant I don't fuck THINGS UP on the first date hehe".
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@Guyandtheroadtovictory I was back then, not now. It is because I was skinny as fuck and was stressing and didn't eat well. I fixed that plus good sleep and testosterone went up 50%. I think this whole bulking thing is stupid. You stuff yourself with carbs which is not good for health, and after cutting you aren't even so much bigger. I don't know really, I am not even lifting, but make sure vitamins and minerals are all good, and hormones. And sleep. If that is not good there is no point to train or even run. It's like revving your car cold with no engine oil. But it is actually positive thing. It is often easy to fix those things and you get a lot of benefits.
@fumbor That's not so bad. I see similarities to me. You need money, girls and looks. Don't be a guy who is screaming how money is not important while waking everyday 5am to his job till 65yo. In the end it is simple. You need food, you need transportation. And you need good food. And reliable transportation. So you need money. And in the end good looks are just health which you need. You don't wanna die early or have dementia. That's all no brainer.
@fumbor I just think it's dumb to marry first or second girl that ever showed attraction. We are not even made to be monogamous. Kings used to have harems(and they still do, rich people, people with power). So why to settle early with some random girl. Why not to keep improving yourself, see what you are capable of. This way you don't even need much pua shit. You read like one book and it's enough. You don't even need a book. High self esteem guys(which probably equals high testosterone) they just know to be playful with girls, not to be needy, to be mysterious.
I was all my life afraid of approaching because I felt I had no value and it was kind of true. But when you are at least on correct path you start to have value and you are automatically higher value than anyone who don't even try even you started today.
You mostly can't just ask "do you wanna fuck?". But you can ask exactly same thing in different words. Join me for coffee. Ok let's go. Then depending on how sexy to her you are and how smart you are the sky is the limit. Girls are bored. They work some office jobs that are boring as fuck. Men are mostly boring losers. Just the fact that in the middle of a day you have time for coffee is mysterious. Are you a businessman, are you just rich, are you just good looking homeless person? All of that is cool.
All you have to do is make her feel safe and make sex your "fault". This way you can make woman fuck you on the backseat of your car in a shopping mall and she will feel more comfortable than with her husband in her own bed. Then you can go shopping with her every Monday or something cause Mondays are the worst aren't they.
That's why good salespeople earn a lot. Because they could also ask "do you want to buy this shit". But they don't because they know how the world works. I know at least one guy like that, he is like 70 years old. He is talking and joking for hour then they sign papers boom 500k apartment sold 4% to him or maybe he just bought it for 300k who knows.Read More
@chadinthemaking69 Or "hurr durr you should do the work duh". I have this every time when I chill with friends and drink beer or two.
People think they need some secret to unlock their potential. The secret is that you are fucking miserable and you will die miserable if you don't change.
By the way it must be some self improvement mechanism in humans- the joy that comes after doing something hard. Like cold shower, running, running in winter, doing work.