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MentORPHEUS
2y ago  The Hub

@kurkumaonce I noticed searching "rules of eye contact " brought pages making opposing recommendations so I suggest look at a few websites of professional Bodies and universities but avoid made for adserving sites. Feel free to get back to me with any questions this leaves you with.

As for the poker face, I used to be VERY reactive. Especially if I disagreed or was displeased or angered, I would telegraph it in an obvious, almost exaggerated manner. Normal mellow people find this uncalibrated thus mildly off putting. Aggressive and manipulative people would catch this and manipulate or fuck with me actively.

Once I became aware of the fact, I was able to consciously suppress this tendency and eventually get it below the natural momentary "tells" that Normal untrained people exhibit. Over time it became natural and automatic.

Another important social skill I've experienced not having then gaining is the art of people watching without telegraphing the fact. I used to watch attractive women with all the subtlety of a 5yo seeing a fire engine going by. Even if the object of attention didn't notice, everyone else in line of sight can see, and this also projects a generally unattractive lack of social calibration.

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kurkumaonce
2y ago  The Hub

@Vermillion-Rx

She was still fixated on two men who rejected her before me.

I remember how you were saying she has that and you won't be diving into relationship with her as she is not worth for you [or similarly]

Now you only made your own mistake and it's cool, you can learn from it and you can do it because you put your time and effort to have the knowledge how all this shit works. Enjoy you have levelled up even if you didn't intend to [or rather you will finish levelling up once your brain chemistry will come back to normal in few weeks].

BTW she could as well playing mind game with you - consciously or not - you're great - these dudes were so great. You know female version of hot and cold.

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kurkumaonce
2y ago  The Hub

@MentORPHEUS

Cultivating a proper poker face is key as well. I used to be far too obviously reactive which tends to attract manipulators while putting off average folks.

Can you add something or refer.

I;m training myself at eye contact now.

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kurkumaonce
2y ago  The Hub

@Acela_nextel

Unless you take notes for only last 2 days, then yes they walk without talking on phone you just choose to make excuses not to approach

    

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kurkumaonce
2y ago  The Hub

@RedPirate751

How in the fuck did the Chinese get a drone in there?

youtu.be/wckzjjaip7k?t=24

    
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kurkumaonce
2y ago  The Hub

@deeplydisturbed

Behind the scenes

    

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kurkumaonce
2y ago  The Hub

@theultmatecad

demand, can you see current demand tide to suddenly change the direction? Away from She-conomy and boys doing what girls do.

What is the minimal critical number of real men worldwide for society to survive, that is the moment of tide reversal IMO.

    

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carnold03
2y ago  The Hub

@kurkumaonce

@carnold03 I should probably be more clear about quality content.

I used to download all my content from Torrent but even for free it is like wasting my time on bs.

Like someone suggested it would be good to have RP approved listings. Now I try to watch 'What a beautiful life' for last 6 weeks.

There's no need to validate yourself.

As I said before, "...decide for yourself if something is worth your time to watch, listen, learn from, worth your money to support, or adding to your own library. The internet grants you access to the entirety of human knowledge and the freedom to engage with it as you see fit. You know it's there. All you need do is reach out and take it. It's yours!"

I only pray that you use this time in human history to realize your potential in ways those of prior generations could not.

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kurkumaonce
2y ago  The Hub

@Typo-MAGAshiv .have your own cameras present as well, so that you can post on YouTube what they chop out of their tv show

That apples to many things, where threat of words [or actions] being twisted exists. I have so many voice recordings when meeting girls to have some cushion.

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kurkumaonce
2y ago  The Hub

@carnold03 I should probably be more clear about quality content.

I used to download all my content from Torrent but even for free it is like wasting my time on bs.

Like someone suggested it would be good to have RP approved listings. Now I try to watch 'What a beautiful life' for last 6 weeks.

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