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What an odd way to spell "this is bullshit"
Don't call it monk mode. You're a single man and you're supposed to love life with or without a partner or an active sex life. Having a purpose is a main goal of TRP.
I think you can become a bit attached to being alone, make sure to balance with some social life: friends, family, playing a sport with some people, you get the point.
Not sure what you're trying to say, except that maybe a lot of other customers try to start trouble with you along ethnic lines, and management is the same ethnicity as the troublemakers?
Basically the issue is illogically (hyper-)emotional boomerocracy and disproportinately favourable bias to boomers and treatment and "fear" of actually in fact potentially being kicked out of the gym for essentially in fact most effectively self-defending myself (mainly verbally) in a verbal & mental conflict. I don't want to lose the gym and the free access to it.
Yeah, I'm hearing that a lot. I'm glad that I'm in the skilled trades, and I can just sign a book at a local union and take a job opening that's available (as long as no one ahead of me on the book takes the spot or spots I want).
I have actually worked a machine shop worker - mechanic - metalworking assembler (assistant) where we build these agricultural chassis and fruit-picking trailers piece-by-piece like a puzzle and worked and actually operated industrial machinery there such as heavy-duty benchtop drills and other stuff.
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv disappointed it wasn't the Epstein picture of rather young ladies pointing and laughing about the wet stain on DJT's pants.
@Typo-MAGAshiv More mental gymnastics avoiding clear renouncement of pedophile cabal side.
We sometimes get into types. Its OK. I seem to be someone with a type. Never tried to make it happen but it happened to me. Its good not to close ourselves off to other possibilities. You don't want to miss something good.
There is really only one risk with having a type, that is that you start to think they are special or have some special way to handle them that gets the results you want. There are very small racial differences. there are small cultural differences. Even when these two pull together in the same direction, they don't add to much. As they say about most things racial and cultural. There is considerably greater diversity within each race than the difference between the average of any given two is. Women are still always women.
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Bro you're spinning yourself out on this. This is scarcity mentality. It's fear based.
You know as well as I do that if you don't get a handle on this, your dating life is going to suck and you won't be able to keep women around.
this issue only arises once exclusivity is on the table.
It's interesting when you say this. It tells a lot. It shows that you are afraid of making the wrong decision by committing, but that's also what you want.
You do realize that unless you marry this woman, you can leave at any time?
I'm going to suggest that you take exclusivity off the table for this girl. You aren't handling it well and you don't have the strength yet to keep a committed relationship without destroying yourself.
I'm sorry brother, but no one gives a shit about your dislike of spinning plates. That's part of the process. You don't have enough experience with female nature to lead your relationship quite yet. Women don't cheat on a strong man that leads. They will lose tingles for an insecure man.
If any of my girls cheat they will be replaced almost effortlessly.
My brother, gaming women and relationships are supposed to be fun and not stressful.
I suggest that A. You do things that are fun and make you happy, by yourself and with other people.
B. You start gaming women until it becomes easy. Approach anxiety goes away with repetition.
Read MoreOP, you need to become emotionally detached. And that isn’t going to come instantly. Being emotionally detached doesn’t mean you don’t have emotions or don’t care about the girl. It does mean that you don’t get mad at her taking a while to respond to texts or whatever.
As for HOW to become detached, that’s just gonna take time and practice. You need to learn to keep a leash on your emotions. Again, doesn’t mean that you don’t have them.
When you DO feel anxious about her, accept it, and accurately self talk yourself mentally. “I feel anxious she hasn’t responded to my text yet. But that doesn’t mean she is cheating. I should just relax right now because nothing is wrong.” You can change the words for whatever situation you are in, but you get the idea.
I also agree with Typo, you shouldn’t be in an LTR just so you don’t need to be in the hunt for plates. That’s a bad frame for an LTR, it’s fear and anxiety based. The most fun part of man-woman relations for men is the part before commitment anyway.
I’d also like to add that cold approach is not the only way to go. It’s also less effective than you’d like, unless you have really good looks + social skills to go with it. A cold approach is somewhat intrusive in 2026. Women do not appreciate it unless they are already interested in you. If you hit on every girl at a place and get mass rejected, you come off as low SMV and desperate.
I personally am a fan of warm approach. This means if you see even a single possible ioi you go for it. Especially useful if you are at a party or something, as there are enough people you are likely to get a soft ioi. This won’t have a 100% success rate, but in my experience you will have at least a 1/3 rate. Pretty good!
And last, fuck Snapchat. Not because of this girl specifically, but because it’s gay as fuck. I DLed Snap once a couple years ago when I met a girl who said she talks there. Total fagotry. It’s all built for women and validation farming. Posting statuses, seeing when someone read your message, seeing when someone is literally typing to you. All stuff for women’s validation. Unless your Snap game is sharp (which yours isn’t), it’s a giant L for men. You are feeling the anxiety from that right now. Don’t play a game which is designed for you to lose.
Think about it in reverse: if you texted a woman that you respond faster to messages on Pornhub, would she make an account to talk to you there?
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