I was pretty broke 4 months ago, now I'm doing better, saving money, buying clothes I needed, healthy food, supplements and even my first guitar. Life is being kind to me and I feel favored after a long rut. I even got to fuck a girl in the first weeks after I found the job.

I found a well paying job, got some great indicators from other teachers, supervisors, students and even the academy's director about my english level,pronunciation and teaching. (I'm an english teacher in one of the most,if not the most, prestigious and oldest academies in my state in latinamerica). Feedback and validation is much needed at work, maybe the only place I really need some proper validation and actual evidence of doing a good job.

Yes,I'm focusing on myself, but at my 37 years old.that means taking care of my sexual needs before I'm too old.

I keep chatting girls up in OLD and they shut down, lose interest, ghost and make up an endless current of excuses when I show interest in dating,going out and having a first fucking date (like I have many times before, and where It could die off too, just 1 date.) Approaches IRL have ended up the same, I asked 2 cashiers who actually showed interest themselves after I just looked at their asses or was just confident enough to look at them in the eyes and chat while I was doing my shopping. 3-4 of these encounters later I asked for their numbers. They actually started the flirty shit, with "Don't cheat on me with another cashier" or Softly shaking my hand when it was my birthday. Plus actually giving me their numbers, just say "no", darling.

We chat, one of them didn't go past a couple uninterested and low effort texts, and the other one made the big ol' current of excuses everytime the conversation shifted towards a more intimate, romantic approach (not even sexual). I told her I wouldn't chat her up for one month until her job allowed her some free time, specially since the texting was also low effort and low interest.

I haven't had the success I would've loved to have before but I'm not doing anything too different, yet these chicks are shutting down like they're getting paid for it. At least 5 years ago i was going on a few first dates, kissing, holding hands and whatever.

It doesn't help that I find my own country's women just fucked up,boring and a clone to talk to. It is indeed a homogeneous mass, always the same woman it seems, in different skins.The physical beauty is top notch, sure. more often than not. But inside they're crap, at least to me, and that keeps me a bit demotivated. It has always been this way for me,in my own country/city.

I'm sincerely looking for a girlfriend, a steady girl to fuck and not get too attached to or make long term plans with, and they're not showing up at all, totally absent. At least a slut to have chemistry with and not having to fool her with dreams of being her lovjng partner forever.

What am I doing wrong? I'm 37, good looking after 9 months of working out consistently and even on the road to look better after some time with supplements and healthier, cherry picked food. These girls are mostly between 27 and 33, and not HB8, mostly HB6-7, some single moms so none of them super

To answer my own question: I'm working on better pics for my OLD account, already got a few. But IRL girls are just playing around.I do think I need to approach more and more and see what happens. But doing something wrong? Beats me, i'm doing the same I was doing in my more successful days before the long rut. Maybe it has something to do with my age now? I'm told I look much younger than 37 on a weekly basis.