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Stating she won’t go back to mine before we’ve had the date.
I met this girl at a party a month ago. She took me back to hers and we fucked.
Two weeks later we went on a date to a cocktail bar were i acted as if sex was the last thing on my mind and she became super keen to go back to mine. So we did and we fucked.
I set up a date with her to go for a fancy dinner and then go to an arcade for this weekend but she called me to say she needs to know what time we’re finishing to so that she can go to her parents house right after and that she won’t be coming back to mine.
Do I: A. Cancel my reservations and tell her on the day theres a change of plans we’re going back to mine. B. Cancel the date and soft next C. Go through with it and see if she changes her mind whilst we’re there
Advice would be greatly appreciated
Option "A" removes any doubt in her mind that your goal is primarily sex, not a relationship. Option "B" allows you to maintain the mystery. Option "C" implies you're cool with not getting laid and willing to defer to her parents, which I doubt you are. Of the options you present, only two are viable.
You could go with option "D", cancel the reservation, and date so you're free to resume looking for more single girls. With the holidays being both next week and the time of year people break up, it shouldn't be too difficult replacing her or to begin stacking plates.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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@Typo-MAGAshiv Sure thing, sure thing. Had a word with Vasiliy though. Cool guy.
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dreams - My first lay after a break
Field report and ranting:
I re-opened a girl on snapchat I had slept with before a few years back. I got her to come over a few days later and I...... [more]
My man, as good of advice you are giving other men on this forum and as many successes as you say you have, you are overthinking the fuck out of this
You remind me heavily of some of the hamstering I have done, bless the guys on here who had the patience, about lowly whores when you're in a bit of a dry spell, ego drought
She is clearly trying to commitment trap but her lack of enthusiasm is placeholder boyfriend level. As in, she was willing to put some chips down for a temporary relationship she will eventually branch from but not less. She is most certainly talking to other guys if not fucking them
You wrote way too goddamn much, even for a vent. It was repetitive. I had to eventually skim despite my best efforts
You need to address your core issues. You are a sexually successful man in a bonding/companionship drought.
A lot of this would be solved by having high T male friends for companions, and two, not giving a shit about an unenthusiastic lay.
The amount of times I went from a cold woman to one bending over backwards for me is common enough you can't take this seriously. If this dumb whore is defeating your head space you've already lost the good fight
Thank god men on this forum have led me to better days. I currently have a really good chick and it has honestly just made me realize that a lot of your experiences with women are going to come down to the woman and not you
You can't let this shit eat you alive. Toxic low self esteem whores are, well, toxic low self esteem whores
You can't let their desperate psychological games slay you like this. It has nothing to do with you but you're making it have something to do with you by being off your game and in a dark place
Lack of pussy (or ability to acquire it) will drive most men mad. Men who don't have pussy but who could easily get it usually don't care and do their own thing often enough.
You're clearly not a guy who could acquire if in command (at this point) and if you do and can you're not acting like it
Get your head out of the dirt
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@dreams because I fucked up. I just came out of an LTR and this is my second lay. I haven’t read or kept up with trp for years and the blue pilled programming crept back in.
So now I’m figuring out the controls again.
A combination of both
@deeplydisturbed it's waaay past IF Epstein was a Mossad asset or operative. Wait till you find out some of the major shit he's been involved in. Major deals treaties legislation in numerous countries. He didn't get private jet and island rich by high college grades and business acumen. Kompromat is both personally lucrative and internationally powerful.
The trashing of men and the lead up to WWIII is not coincidental. It's a kind of "wave synchronization" of processes active in societies that lead to their decline.
Men will now be given the chance to redeem themselves and feel important, for once, by risking their lives in the battlefield.
Reply To dreams - My first lay after a break
Field report and ranting:
I re-opened a girl on snapchat I had slept with before a few years back. I got her to come over a few days later and I...... [more]
I realized re-reading this that while messing up the opportunity of sleeping with this girl is a bit annoying, I should be more on top of my game if I hope to be in control of my short/long term relationships in the future. Yes, if my SMV is out of the girls ball park it will be quite easy, but you should always be aware of the war that is being played on your mind in order to not fall for a trap. I should to sharpen up.
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