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fund all the expenses of women *employees who want abortions
He lost me there when he went against abortions for lowering the fertility rate.
I believe there can be a middle ground between the pro- and against- camps, here.
Politics-wise, you first produce women capable of raising children, then you have them have children. It's evident that most contemporary women are permanently damaged with regards to their capacity to raise a mentally healthy child. Totally unfit.
Aborting the fetus is, (let's say), the lesser evil.
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Are you SURE that there will be a higher ratio of women? As in, are you going to an actual club, or some party that your buddy is throwing? Because if it's the latter, chances are that there will just be a bunch of men hanging around, and a few of their girlfriends.
Long-term relationship?
More like late-term preggo-ship, amirite?
@TwoInchesOfShaft Depends on the career trajectory. Doing that when young so you can obtain substantial pay and responsibilities later on is a reasonable choice. Beating your head against the wall in your 50s for 60 hrs/week year round doesn't sound appealing.
Anyone else here thinking no matter how good you are at your job and how far you could go, it’s not worth it to work 60 hours per week year in year out? I’ve come to the realization that a “career” is not worth anything to me if all other aspects of my life get neglected. I don’t care if my career would go amazing if I don’t have the energy anymore to pick up my guitar or to bang my wife. I’ll probably never take it easy, that’s not my personality, but grinding all the time is not appealing to me.
Everyone has given the right advice. Happy fun men are attractive. The best players love playing whether they win or lose, Playing and winning is best but playing and losing is still the next best thing for them. Women find men who enjoy being around women and making women feel good genuinely attractive.
So mingle and strike up conversations, enjoy women and let them see you enjoy them -at first with no agenda but if they warm to you and you warm to them, then escalate as fast as she likes.
Great sportsmen never really have one make or break game. That is the fallacy of the fan. The truth is great players are made by years of matches and hundreds of practises. Occasionally when they step out on a field and the stars align they get a break through that they and the fans never forget but that breakthrough stands on the shoulders of ten thousand very ordinary rehearsals, without which it would have been impossible.
Literature provides coaching suggestions but no coaching can ever make up for turning up to a practise 2 or 3 times a week and doing your strength and conditioning. Coaching makes training and practise more effective. Practise and training make players. This party is a great chance for some practise and who knows you might score. If you see it as make or break, score or fail, its adding pressure and too much pressure kills performance.
In the movies the coach whispers some magic into the ear of the athlete stepping out onto the field for the big match where the national team selector is watching. In reality its too late for magic by then. The hay is already in the barn by then. "Don't forget the wind is sharp tonight" is about as complex as its going to be. Usually its just "Go get them" or if the guy is nervous "Just play". Just play.
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