Over the past year, I've lost some weight, and moved. I've done probably 80 cold approaches over the past 7 months, but the since the new year I've kind of given up. I had some positive reactions for about 3 of the cold approaches, even got a date on the spot out of one, but since I've moved I've been demotivated and kicking myself for fucking up. Haven't gotten anywhere past conversations,and haven't approached since the new year and I find myself falling back in to shitty habits and thinking that I'll never get laid. I find myself falling back into this victim mindset that I've been working on ending and thinking that I'll never make it happen. How do I get myself out of this slump? How can I motivate myself when I feel like shit?

If I were to try to answer myself, I would say the best way out of this slump is to try dating apps again or maybe to keep building my social circle up in my new city and work on that first. Establish a social proof and maybe expand enough to find a girl. To kill the victim mindset that is persisting, maybe therapy or something like that.