I deletedthe post because it was an insult to everything TRP is. Quick summary: I was overthinking a chick that didn't seem interested in more than flirty/attention games. After the shitty post, she (30) wrote caling me(37)a kid because I stopped following her on instagram (way before I even went to her apartment). I'm not butthurt, I just took the chance to stop talking to her. After 2 months...

She liked one of my posts (Succulent Passion Fruit Ceviche) recently and I decided to write. She told me she never understood what happened (lolz 2). I jokingly told her she beat me up and bruised me and I decided to step back cause I must have offended her somehow. We laughed it off and she says "You're always welcome here". I agree to go to her place to bring her some Ceviche. It was just the two of us, no cockblocking mom this time. I knew what to do, we end up in light playful kino, I keep some on/off pressure and after 2 hours of teasing,tickling and half hugs (she jokes about her being a tranny and I ask her to show it to me, (her tight pants show a camel toe) we were almost laying down on the couch, with my hand rubbing her neck with her moaning a bit and getting very comfy, we were both sleepy. I went home,I had to work early. I believe in controlling the interactions, specially the physical stuff at the beginning

Yesterday, she asks me to go with her to the supermarket. We keep on flirting with a lot of tension and some light kino on her lower back as she buys some stuff, she leans to show me her cleavage a few times (she's an HB8,very thin and petite) and also puts her hands on my belly and shoulders every now and then,I can tell she's attracted to me being older,taller and thick due to her comments. I got us a couple of beers and we sit down at the park back home to chat. After some convo, she asks me about my last relationship, I just mention a few details and she seems very excited and comfortable talking to me,when it is her turn i tell her to shut up cause i dont wanna hear about her ex again,she agrees. I pull some soft caveman move and pull her towards me, brief resistance but we end up making out, I can tell she's very hot ,moaning,rubbing her hands on her own body and her tongue is deep in my mouth but I control the passionate stuff and dominate a bit rather easily since she's very submissive at this point.

I'm tired as fuck so I tell her I'm going home, in her elevator we kiss goodbye some more and she gets very rough, I hold her firmly by the neck and say bye. She tells me "text me whenever the hell you want". I just turn around and go. She wrote a couple of hours ago asking me for more food. I'm going there tomorrow to pick up my container, who knows what's gonna happen but I'll be tired again because It has been a rough week at work, I may a nap before going to her place.

ON THE OTHER HAND, the next day after the back rub, I was at the bank and noticed this young, black cutie looking at me, she's 28. As this is a warm latino city, everyone is just talking,laughing about the long line, mostly old people After she's done, I tell her to wait and I ask for her number "I never do this", I say..She writes it down on my phone.I've been texting her, she's chatty and I invited her out, she agreed.Nomal convo, I only throw a few soft words after she agreed to the date.

I'm taking it very easy lately, just playing it longer term and a bit more patiently. I think the ease of dating apps 5 years ago conditioned me to just expect fast dates. It has worked for me, I feel more under control of my own sexuality and desire, which is something I now recommend. It pays off, first in your own well being and expectations, and second in results. Think of you first, always, my man.

I'll update you guys when something happens. Thanks to everyone who gave me some tough love on that old shitty post, I do appreciate it, I know we all mean good here.