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45m ago The Hub
I read the Rational Male, the Player's Handbook came to mind first. Right now I'm going through Pook's book and Rossy posts.
HSP? I can't seem to find it or i'm blind.
46m ago The Hub
@Typo-MAGAshiv Why are you drinking? I thought we were not doing that anymore!
1h ago The Hub
@RedBarbell Needed to read this, thanks!
As a guy that was never really the A-hole in social settings, I needed to change my mindset a bit to escape the niceguy™ label. Basically what I've been doing is being aloof and be kind but not a pushover, I also do not let people into my personal life or give them too many details at first, girls especially must know nothing!
@Typo-MAGAshiv Ok she didn’t let me cop anything first date. She was really socially awkward and nervous. But she was really flirty and she said “I’m just looking for a friend” but then whispered “with benefits”. So, I left the date and just said “hit me up when you feel like it” and didn’t send any text or get a text after.
I feel like I was being autistic because when we left she stared at me really hard and kept saying she was cold and tired and just wanted to go back home and sleep. I was going to make a move but I didn’t want to pressure it too much because she kept suggesting this was just a warmup to get her comfy. I was going to suggest something else but I didn’t want to suggest going back to her place cause we took separate cars.
But, I think she’ll hit me up tomorrow because she told me she’d be off at 5:30 and said she has nothing to do.
I think it’d be best to, even though I really want to beta out and ask tomorrow, just not text and see when she hits me back up.
Sorry for the long ass speech. Do you think I was okay?
Read More2h ago The Hub
This stuck with me. A few years ago I met this chick that was extremely beautiful. But alas, it was the chocolate Easter Bunny effect: she looked good on the outside.
On the inside was nothing. She was boring so I didn't pursue her.
Anyways this same woman was bitching because she didn't have "ownership". What she meant was that no one owned her and she desperately wanted a worthy Chad to claim her.
In this case, it was a girl that wanted so desperately to feel owned, that she would gladly take the description of second choice if it somehow correlated to being owned by a man she wanted.
She doesn't need a man she just wants to be owned by the right man.
I love this post. I’ve been autistmaxxing and fake talking like I’ve got a life going on and bitches. I found that silence over text is the best way to get stuff going. I used to send “hope you got back safe, let me know if you’re up to a second date” texts. Never got me a second date. But, I have problems with anxiety and I’d always be afraid to just leave it hanging because “what if she’s just nervous or something or what if she’s waiting for me to text first?”.
Second I read all the posts here about “if she’s really into you, she’ll arrange the next meetup” it finally started. If nothing happened at the end of the date or I got no notion from her that she wanted a kiss or a hug, I’d just say “hit me up when you feel like it”. No follow up text, no “hope you got back safe”, no “good morning” the next day.
Finally, after that, even if it took a week, THEY would hit me up and say “oh you just forgot about me” or “Hey, wyd I’ve been thinking about you”.
But I’d still lose out because then I’d get all lovey dovey. So I started just responding “been busy, lemme pick you up later and we’ll catch up” and it’s been solid ever since.
Read MoreWell,if you focus on networking and socializing then the new guys at the gym will add more value to your workouts,maybe you'll get a better physique.out of it.approaching girls at the gym doesn't seem like a nice idea, they're just on a shitty mind state when wearing those tight gym clothes,taking photos and other guys eye fucking them.But if you must then you do you, the gym guys will probably help you out,overall it seems like a positive change provided you make just a bit of effort
Was curious if it was posted here before
I don't recall having seen it, but a lot of these kind of run together after awhile