Am I doing something wrong

No, Miss! NO. It's NEVER you.

You're perfect in every way. You've been smiling through your life, making all of the right decisions and all of the right calls. It's the rest of the planet who has failed you.

The employers don't pay you enough and give you enough promotions. The social media upvotes aren't numerous enough when you post your brilliant, inarguably true opinions. The men aren't hot/tall/rich/suave enough and aren't working hard enough to gain your all-important approval. They're all failing you in different ways. They're not in secret cahoots with each other-- that would be paranoid, ha ha-- but if they were in secret cahoots with each other, they wouldn't advertise it either. Hm. Really makes you think.

Just keep on keepin' on, queen! It's all part of your journey...

Following on from my previous post I first sent her a message negging her / making fun of her a little I got no reply then followed up with a message 2 days later direct to the point saying "Meet me in X on Saturday"

After 3 Days of silence I got this reply:-

She said "sorry been back and forth to hospital all weekend and last few days back to work sadly"

So she was visiting her friends sick kid in hospital which is sweet I guess. With that said I think its an indicator of low interest that she didn't read my message or reply for such a long time as I believe if a girl had strong desire she would.

Do I go silent because I suggested we meet and she hasn't suggested an alternative day to meet? Or do I answer with a brief message like "No problem I guessed that may be the case hope all is ok now"

My attempt to answer my question - Going silent seems a little counterproductive I think I should just reply with "No problem I guessed that may be the case hope all is ok now" then wait and see if she messages me again dating other girls in the meantime?

Side note - I actually have a date with another girl lined up anyway and I guarantee I wont make the same mistake twice so that's a positive.

This is perhaps a very simplistic way to look at things but to me black pill is just red pill without hope. Everything looks black in the darkness of depression and hopelessness.

So she is not yours its your turn, so marriage is a bad bet, so that is a pain but its not the end of the world. Saying that Its like saying "Winter comes along and kills all the tomato plants I grow. I will never eat tomatoes again now I know they die on you when you have done nothing wrong". You won't get any help being upset about the turning of the seasons. Do you like tomatoes? then grow some, buy some, beg some borrow some steal some but don't get depressed that tomato plants are frost tender or give up on cooking with them. Similarly don't give up on enjoying women just because you know that they are not all faithful and kind, honest and able to see past surface impressions of value. Not everything is ideal.

There is always a resource cost to getting female attention. It may not be worth it in many cases. That's OK though because if you wanted it enough, you would just do those things. Only a depressed man would not. If you are genuinely depressed, try to fix that rather than worrying about the black pill.

This “chika” could have been married to a good man for a decade by now if she had chosen the sensible path rather than chasing bad boys based on how tall, flashy, and superficiality attractive they were.

She pretends to be surprised by his approach, but it’s clear that his approach works (at least often enough for him to be a baby-daddy three times over). We know he’s tall and good looking because she said so. His words were intended to convey that he has a lot of money and he likes to throw it around.

Does she really not understand why he “sells” himself like that to women in dance clubs?

She may reject him because NOW she’s “ready to get serious,” but he won’t care: there are 20 more just like her who will jump at the opportunity to be with a tall, good looking guy who throws money around.