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I actually do understand your feelings on this OP. I'm currently divorced (about to re-marry soon) and the emotions and struggles you are describing are quite common. My biggest pain point when trying to make a decision in the "what to do" phase of calling it quits was how this would affect my children. Fucking killed me with the notion that they'd be growing up in separate households, but deep down I knew I wasn't going to be able to make it work out long term with the now ex-wife. One thing I suspected at the very end of my marriage was that my stress tolerance was overloaded. It wasn't until a year or so later after the ex-wife was completely removed from my life that I realized and experienced just how peaceful things could be in my life, and the weight of that stress was life-changing.
I can promise you that children can adjust assuming you are willing to be regularly active in their lives.
I do agree with everyone else that based on what you've written this marriage is over. You need to bite the bullet now, realize you'll probably be giving up a lot of money and such - just get it over with now.
Now let me highlight several things working in your favor:
- You're a doctor and someone who's willing to work hard
- You're still young, you said you're currently 33.
- You will have no trouble at all pulling younger women even at age 50.
Everything you're describing that's wrong right now, someone else will be more than happy to share their life with you. Make sure to get a pre-nup next time.
Read MoreSearch feature?
Yeah, up top. Thing kicks ass once you know how to use it.
For example, if you want to search me, enter "+magashiv" (minus the quotation marks) and whatever other terms you want. If you try to search my full username, the hyphen is a minus sign, and so your results will include every post in which someone says "typo" but no instances of "magashiv".
I learned that after months of thinking the search sucked lol.
But anyway, underscores tend to fuck it up.
You have to type it out manually (and hope you got it right)
What?
@Stigma that's fine!
Just show up and say stuff like:
this place is too brown/yellow! You need some diversity! Now subsidize my existence!
There is almost no gender in modern English -she, he and it are very rare examples of gender still surviving in pronouns. So gender was an easy word for anglophone liberals to abuse. To them it just meant a pronoun and they have come to love their pronouns. Had English been a truly gendered language, I do not think this notion of changing your gender could have got started.
That's kind of why the "Latinx' bullshit didn't take off among Hispanics; to them, they're either "Latina" or "Latino".
@Lone_Ranger you must be losing your memory in your old age; inverting the pics is only when you're making fun of @MSNBCorpheus er, @mentorpheus due to his goof-up here.
So here are your vcards back!
@Typo-MAGAshiv this is for you, TypoMegaShit
0.409304@Typo-MAGAshiv you posted the YSATI meme wrong! it is supposed to be upside down or inverted. Therefore, you suck.
Vcards for you!
