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I read about this hero, an actor, that did 18 engagements, 60 years ago. Zero marriages.
And I was born as a poor black child.
That is a quote from Steve Martin from the movie The Jerk.
"Me and my daughter..."
Ahem. It's "My daughter and I" "MY DAUGHTER AND I"!
Dangling dangerously from the clause, the participle swung freely, hated by grammarians.
There is a rabbit hole of marriage bullshit i could critique but I don't have it in me
The newer generations are in survival mode.
They live by the latest TikTok trends, and cry on social media about not being able to get a job without realizing that nobody wants to be around someone tatted from head to toe, have piercings sticking out of every orifice, and rainbow colored hair. But oh no, "they're not the problem. Society is supposed to conform to their ideals, not vise versa." They can't accept reality. They rather throw a temper tantrum.
The women are masculine baby mommas, and the men are feminine weebs. It's going to take a serious shift in societal norms, fair treatment of men under the law, as well as the complete destruction of feminism and leftist socialist ideology.
All we can do is embrace the men who find themselves given a Red Pill enema from some crazy skanky bitch, and set them back on the right path. We are already seeing some success, but I still think we're generations away from a true course correction.
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Bitches will fuck you up serious.
Do you have a girlfriend? Do you have a situationship? Do you have a girl that you're talking to? Do you have an ex that you're still talking to?
I guarantee her phone is loaded with guys with whom she has a boyfriend, a situationship, guys that she's talking to, and an ex that she's still talking to.
What is this epidemic of shitty men?
Rules for thee but not for me. Get the fuck outta here, you shitty ass bitch.
women are jumping and IDK how to manage dating.
awesome.
Work out what YOU want.
Then stick to it at all costs.
The hardest part if you're successful is stopping women from doing "make him wait" dating to try and get your commitment.
Before I used to date monogamously in LTR, cute, submissive family oriented women, thats was fine, but realized that marriage is not for me, atleast not now dunno if later, and stopped doing it because i was "wasting" this good material girls time. Plus I moved cities so it was impossible to continue a relationship by distance.
Right
Do you guys are still looking for "the one" unicorn to marry, and avoid spinning plate meanwhile ? (Cute, young, submissive, and family oriented)
Gave up on the one. No intention of ever doing monogamy again, because it's frankly shit.
Do you guys just spin plates? carelessly? Forever or until you wanna settle?
I go for more like multiple relationships. I wouldn't say "plates", it's more like MLTR.
Do you date and just have an honest talk with women saying you dont wanna be monogamous?
Yep
I dont know what to do, I get a lot of cute girls hitting on me, but I know most of them will inevitable end with the marriage talk,
This is not true.
which is also tiresome to deal with. So thats why Im asking for your advice. What works best for you?
Tell them up front (after mutual interest is established, but before sex) that you date multiple people at a time and then say "are you ok with that?".
50% will bail, and that's great.
I know this is hard for you to believe, but 50% will be ok with it..... some for a few months..... others for literally years.
You need to recalibrate your expectations..... if you think most will end with a marriage talk, you're doing it all wrong.
You need to not lead with anything beta or provider-ish. Do not provide for them. Drinks, meals, ...... you start paying, and you start to make them think you are investing rather than them, and they'll pretend to be a nice girl, and start with the "make him wait" shit.
Instead you flirt hard, sexually escalate, have "the talk", fuck and enjoy.
And when they do the old "make him wait", you politely tell them that you don't think you want the same things and you escort them to the door, thanking them for their time and buying them a cab.
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