@midfingr Mmm, I'd take that as her trying to qualify her decision to go upon how much fun you're going to manufacture for her, rather than getting to know you better as a person. I'd answer with a chipper tone, "Spend some quality time together." If she asked a second time I'd pressure flip, "Hey, do you want to get to know me or just be entertained for the evening?"

Get to know me and quality time sound kinda beta-ish on paper, but in context it's clear the subtext ultimately means in the biblical sense. In person and with a strong presence and some buy-in from her already, you could pull off more direct and assertive angles. Over text or phone it's too easy to be heard as overly pushy/aggressive and scuttle the deal by forcing her into an anti-slut-defense mode you can't recover from over text. Using this phrasing hasn't hurt my game and most encounters where it was used ultimately led to sex.