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@Bozza I find that many small businesses get bunches of enquiries. Its like people are thinking the same way at the same time. These women sound like they want to feel better about themselves. They know you are a quick fix but not a solution -like eating a tub of ice cream. Easy to access but not that great for you.
So I suspect women as a whole are feeling a bit down on themselves. Its not spring yet. OLD looks like its dying. Valentines has come and gone. What's a girl to do if she can't get some attention?
@SwarmShawarma I like the "Mouse Utopia" experiments. If you take away struggle society rots, more and more females go off sex or kill their young, more and more males abstain or get violent. In the end they go extinct.
The wolf is the deer's friend (on a species level) as are we. The lack of pressure on women is causing all their instincts to end up misplaced. Society is decadent. One need not be an augur to read these signs, signs men have know from of old. The father loses authority, the crippled and weak are born more and more, the weak among the youth turn homosexual, women lose all virtue, men become lazy as there is nothing less to strive for. The land becomes tired and gives up less harvest. We are ripe for a renewal cycle. Otherwise we will go the way of mouse utopia.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=9S1EzkRpelY
THIS is how you make small talk with women.
different times in history.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=3nNsM9Y5kOA
Interesting anecdotes from history, Victorian times, absynth clubs
@First-light there is this theory that by2050 most of the land will get flooded. Climate will change, all part of 12ky cycle. Or shorter - distinguished by severity.
I was thinking. Amazon women, Bible tales (Jericho, Babbel tower, Noah's Ark)...
Is it possible that our instincts could be in alignment with mass extinctions.
Apparently source code has been opened, is it easy enough to analyse it, even with AI, or doesn't make sense for other reasons.
Also see what the difference it'll make to search for a user on
xcancel.com
@Bozza maybe we should reconsider what is the meaning of planet alignments
28M virgin, 178 cm . Finally started getting dates but unable to move beyond first.
28M virgin, 178 cm . Finally started getting dates but unable to move beyond first.
I used to be a huge lurker back in 2019-20 on original Redpill subreddit. And learned some. Read the rational male , book of pook, sidebar numerous times and had been trying to approach women but over 7 years I got 0 dates. I am kinda average looking , slim And of avg height (178 cm). I tried bulking up but I got injury which put me out for a solid 3 years.
Right now, I am 28M virgin, Since I wasn't getting dates irl so, got good photos and downloaded hinge. Got 80 matches of which Managed to score 3 dates. All 3 unmatched after first date and didn't pursue for a 2nd one. Somehow hinge matched me with everyone who's looking for something serious . I don't know if we didn't connect or they didn't find me attractive enough. I tried doing "game", maintained a playful smile with intense eye contact, flirting constantly. I asked them about themselves, made sure to keep the conversation to themselves. Each one of them asked "How many more girls are you seeing", which to me sounded like it's going good as they don't ask this, unless they're attracted. I also maintained high energy, agreed and amplified (like they asked why did you choose this place away from your home , I just said I put on the big map of rhe city blindfolded myself and see where it landed. ( It was just close to her place)
But at the same time, they rejected physical touch, and would not dance when I asked. They also didn't compliment me at all, which sounds like again they weren't attracted to me.
This looks like a constant pattern, I am able to get first dates but no escalations beyond that. I have not able to meet anyone without apps in the past 7 years, approaching hasnt worked and I am not sure how to proceed as a virgin at almost 30. Please help me out.
TLDR (through gpt):
28M, average-looking, virgin. Spent years consuming Redpill content and trying to approach women IRL with no success. Recently switched to Hinge, got ~80 matches and 3 first dates, but all ended after the first meet.
On dates, used playful “game,” high energy, teasing, and focused conversation on them. They asked if he was seeing other girls (seemed like interest), but rejected physical escalation and didn’t show strong attraction signals.
Pattern: can get first dates via apps, but no second dates or physical progression. Unsure whether it’s lack of attraction, connection, or approach. Looking for direction on what to change
It reads like you're getting back into dating after a hiatus, but you're noticing something is off regarding your social skills. If you've any friends and acquaintances you've noticed similar problems with, try and get feedback regarding your interactions with them to help you identify the problem. It's probably for the best that you focus on your professional life, exercise, diet, and communication skills.
In the meantime, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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@Vermillion-Rx The entire thing is fake and retarded. You get followed by clusters of bots, your follower count rises and falls with no notifications of follows (unless someone actually follows you). The algorithm puts you inside the most incestuous echo chamber imaginable. People will come out with the fakest shit and pass it off as real. It’s a torment to the human condition!
I'm not entirely sure, I'm definitely being somewhat throttled but otherwise my engagement and followers keeps climbing
I've also been creator paid once so far, so they at least definitely consider me legit
My view of account logged out on web is almost exclusively my highest engaged posts I ever made when I engagement baited early on
My working theory is that they feed new accounts/logged outs users "top" content, which I think is stupid but that's what I'm seeing
In my alt's view I only see recent posts in the app. Maybe there is an app/web or logged in/logged out disconnect. They're definitely not equal
I agree stuff is broken though
