@mustangfrank1 I'm going to address this in a different order than what you said/asked because there are some misconceptions that need clearing up.

Keeping the site private will not grow the site

WAATGM isn't private. WATGMA, the child sub, is because it has migrated to forums.red only.

WAATGM has been restricted to 18+ for the past several years in an attempt to stay ahead of any attempts at banning or quarantining the sub. That can keep newbies from finding it as easily, but we (the WAATGM mod team) thought it worth it.

until the Reddit Mods closes that one down as well

Important distinction: you meant reddit admins. I was a mod at reddit for WAATGM and WATGMA. Mods are volunteers who own and run the various subreddits.

Admins are actual paid employees of reddit, and they fucking suck. They're the ones who permanently suspended me and @polishknight, they're the ones who banned the MGTOW subs, and they're the ones who quarantined TRP.

[creating different subreddits to bring in more people]

It won't work, most of us don't have time for that (I've barely been on here lately, and I have many conversations I haven't replied to yet from the past couple of weeks), and if reddit admins catch on, they'll ban all the subs for "ban evasion" like they did the MGTOW subs that weren't even connected to the original /r/MGTOW.

I've been intending to take it up with the rest of the WAATGM mod team that maybe we should remove the 18+ setting from the sub to get more visibility. We might discuss it privately, but this (changing the setting) probably won't happen very soon.

Talking with a new bartender at my favorite dive. Tall, skinny gothic six, with too much metal in her face. It's a little slow so she keeps circling back for conversation.

This goes on for about half an hour before I realized she thinks I'm actually interested in fucking. She complimented my style. Grabbed my hand to laugh with me.

Then in comes Sam. She interrupts our conversation, "Hey Kloi! Where's Libby?" While I'm explaining she's unpacking as I just moved her in, I see the gothic girl's face go from pleasant to sour.

After my interaction with Sam, goth bitch checks on me once to ask how the food is. Ran into Sam this morning and we had a good laugh over conversation how the new girl felt lead on. In Sam's words, "she thought you two were really connecting."

There's two take aways, first is on the female hamster. They'll automatically assume you're interested in them if you give them a miniscule amount of time/interest.

This plays into the second. This was casual, bar room banter. I never hit on or complimented her. I didn't even realize we were flirting. It wasn't until about 15 minutes into talking with her, that it even dawned on me she was interested.

This is what I mean by being a social butterfly. I just talked to her like I would anyone. Challenged an idea or two of hers. That was all it took to get her tingling.

If you think your brain is too solidly functional and needs some breaking, this might be the video for you. Woman gets "kidnapped at knifepoint" and driven away by the alleged attacker in her own car. Her boyfriend and father of her disabled child, pleads for help from the police, who act reluctant and question the account he gives of what happened. Long video short, she is tracked down after a few days in a motel room with the guy.

Turns out, she is a student social worker and met him at the jail where she worked and he was serving a 13 year sentence for rape. Her story rapidly evolves under questioning, and in the end, she is defending him and saying stuff like she doesn't want to be the second woman to send him to jail.

The boyfriend in this story, needs to RUN LIKE HELL away from this woman!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=8xEvZM3_KvY