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@MentORPHEUS why not comment that in the thread at the forum post?
@Vermillion-Rx Boy, could I have EVER used this as I was coming of age in the mid 80s, somewhat aspie and well behind the curve compared to my peers. The advice available at the time was rooted in 50s-60s norms. Dale Carnegie's How to win friends and influence people was a notable exception that holds up well to this day, but I didn't get my hands on a copy till the late 90s. My well meaning Mom told me, Just watch people, how they interact and make friends! Not very helpful, toward trying to jump start a social awareness later than all your peers, with no experience thus clue at the subtleties and presumptions others had worked through the learning curve of.
Literally spelling out all these details about social interaction, represents EXACTLY what guys currently in our younger shoes need, to get to a place on the learning curve where "just watching others interact " offers clues and insights one can actually pick up on then become able to learn from and actually integrate into the self.
Read Moreif you just treat her like the slut she wants to be, she will love you more than if you treat her like the queen you think she is.
If you treat a woman like a queen, she'll view you as a peasant.
what about love though? Or is that an unrealistic expectation too?
Love is real, but it's not what you've been conditioned to long for. Time to let go of the blue pill idealism.
Just posted in TheRedPill forum
www.forums.red/p/theredpill/325372/how_to_develop_social_skills_from_scratch
@Chantfire Congrats man! My first kid just knocked off his first year. Changed several formulas--first time moms' breastmilk can be less than the ideal amount--Kendamil goat milk based formula is what worked for us. Yeah, similac made him cry all night even after the adaptation period.
That Dr. Brown formula dispenser saves a shit ton of time and energy.
Expect your wife's behavior to change. Long term sleep deprivation changes people a lot. You're just gonna have to take up most of the house chores for a while--or hire a nanny if you can afford it, idk. ideally though, have either her or your mom at your place for a while to assist.
Don't buy too many clothes at once, they grow in size fast.
South Africa
Damn son. @Chantfire pls tell us South Africa stories.
My experiences with South Africa have always been crazy.
