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Here are two approaches:
- Next time you find one going out of her way to come around, say something like “Did you just check me out?” and smile. If she admits it or agrees in any way, then tell her “Buy me a drink for my birthday”. Her: “When’s your birthday?” You: “Take me out and I’ll tell you. Here’s my number.”
If she avoids it or says “No I wasn’t checking you out” then respond with. “Ok, maybe it’s just me then” and walk away. Wait for her to try to process that. If she at any time asks you “what did you mean by that?” Tell her “Take me out for a birthday drink and I’ll tell you.” See above for the rest.
- Ask your target for advice. Next time you see her, tell her you need some advice. Ask her when she has some time. Go to the local lunch place or coffee and invite her. Then make up some bs about dating older women in your 20’s. Something like “I am not sure how old you are, so I intend no disrespect here, but you look like you know what you want in life. I’m interested in an older woman and i want to get close to her, like real close, like sexual addiction close. What’s my best first move”. Then take it from there.
Good luck. let me know how it goes.
AND, as @typo-MAGAshiv said Do NOT shit where you eat. Be very careful.
Read More@Bozza she sounds like way more hassle than anyone's worth
1) I advise against shitting where you eat. Even if you don't work for the same company, if there's a chance that trying something can cost you your job, then don't. That includes clients, customers, colleagues, just sharing office space, whatever. If this is a job you don't care about at all, then go right ahead.
2) they're not that much older than you, so don't act like the age difference means much, because it really doesn't. With that in mind...
3) game them the same as any other woman.
How to get with older women in the office as a young man?
I'm a really young guy (20) and there are a few attractive older women (mid-20s- early 30s) in my office. I'm also an attractive guy, and I've had some small talk here and there, and I've caught the occasional glance. The problem is, I'm not sure how to properly run a game on them.
I should also mention that I don't work with any of these women or their company; we just happen to work in the same building/space.
Study the book, watch for signs of interest, and make your moves accordingly. If you're lucky, you'll be the youngest geldling in their stable.
How to get with older women in the office as a young man?
I'm a really young guy (20) and there are a few attractive older women (mid-20s- early 30s) in my office. I'm also an attractive guy, and I've had some small talk here and there, and I've caught the occasional glance. The problem is, I'm not sure how to properly run a game on them.
I should also mention that I don't work with any of these women or their company; we just happen to work in the same building/space.
@First-light I'm betting life experience. I've seen a number of men who didn't do well with women when younger who eventually rise to fairly prominent positions in their fields, and it isn't uncommon for them to be screwing around with secretaries or other lower level employees and thereby harm their careers. Hormones preumably aren't driving that behavior; rather, the lack of adequate sexual experiences when younger appears to be the culprit.
