@deeplydisturbed anger is a necessary step, because it allows new neural pathways to form.

The key is not to spend all your time wallowing in anger.

@Problematic_Browser generally yes, and I said very similar, but there are exceptions

I try to avoid words like "always", "never", "all", "none", etc.

@Typo-MAGAshiv You can't rely on frustration.

"The mass of men live lives of quiet desperation."

-Henry David Thoreau

When a man is frustrated he just accepts it as a matter of course and, because men are (generally) creatures of accountability, we first look at ourselves and ask "why?"

What leads a man to the red pill isn't run-of-the-mill frustration about women, or dating, or society. It is always a catastrophic event that we can't explain with our internal processes. That moment when we realize "I did everything right, and this is still the outcome. What fucking went wrong?

@Typo-MAGAshiv I've thought about sending him a Rollo book, I genuinely haven't put thought into why I haven't sent him one. I remember there being a reason I came up with.

@Typo-MAGAshiv

You just hit a button with this comment. Without getting too into theory. There is an author named Jack Mezirow. He posits that people undergo “transformative Learning” experiences when they experience a disorienting dilemma

So when you say “drastic”. You are talking about a disorienting dilemma

A red pill awakening is A perspective transformation.

@chadinthemaking69 give him a copy of Rollo Tomassi's first book.

Send him the occasional link to an archived Roissy/Heartiste post.

Breadcrumbs are your best bet.

Don't expect it to work. Most men have to go through something drastic to unplug. General frustration usually isn't enough.

@chadinthemaking69 you can't read pill a man.

Trying to red pill a man is like jumping into a raging river to try to save a man, only got him to not only tell you that he's fine, but that you should try drowning with him.

It isn't until he realizes that he's drowning and swims to shore that we can tell him anything.

@Problematic_Browser One of my friends has been with a few girls and he says they always say that he treats them so well and makes them feel so good, but they don’t know why they don’t want to be with him anymore.

It’d be cool if there was a way to show people why things don’t work. I can’t just tell him, “women don’t want to be happy, they want to be angry, jealous, sad, happy, and horny” without him thinking I’m a lunatic.

I wholeheartedly think the only way to unplug someone else is hope they find the cracks in the matrix and want to know more.

@Problematic_Browser if he doesn't, sooner or later it will be forced upon him as a suppository

@jprdl

Also what is a drug. Money is basically a drug. Alcohol is a drug. Feeling comfortable is a drug. Salary is a drug.

No dude. Words have meanings.