@Antelope I don't wanna give specifics but I'll be moving to a popular south east asian country from another country in asia. I've lived in the west as well so I could give my observations on differences in culture & people, as well as how to navigate it intelligently from the perspective of a westerner.
Will be moving countries again soon. I'm gonna document myself relocating & starting a new "life" from scratch again for my own YouTube. New superficial friends & new women, new rotation. If you guys would be interested in seeing me documenting my journey from scratch tell me, Im gonna give some pointers on approaching groups of new people, where to meet people organically, etc.
@AndrewTatesPancreas definitely an internal thing. His emotions are being swayed so hard by a woman that he barely knows.
You know you're solid on your own internal validation when other people's emotional reaction/actions have pretty much no effect on you.
@Noonenoname you can cultivate an abundance mindset by detaching from the outcome and realizing that you can have 0 girls and still be content.
You should be willing to have 0 girls, than 1 girl who doesn't respect or adore you. Whether you have 100 girls on rotation or 0, you can still have an abundance mentality.
@AndrewTatesPancreas he's posting so heavily about her that his problem is not how we can rectify this situation with this one girl, that'll only solidify his oneitus and overthinking.
The issue here is that he looks outside too much for validation, and for people to tell him what he's worth. Dude needs to work his pillars of confidence instead of focusing on girls right now.
@Noonenoname I can tell by your confusion that you look to other peoples validation too much. WHAT DO YOU THINK?
I'm not gonna go back and re-read everything to pinpoint it, but you said a joke twice & she responded too seriously. Now you're making multiple posts about her and trying to supplicate, looking for the answers. This screams lack of options, and lack of ability to generate options.
If a woman did something I didn't like, I'd immediately respond with a facial expression thats says "Dang is there something wrong with you?". In order to stop questioning and doubting yourself, you need to spend more time on yourself & not trying to chase this one girl.