A bit of vent with a question
How do you use trp posts?
I’ve recently quit trp on Reddit since it had endless high quality attractive posts which were but it all left me feeling that there’s so much to know and I couldn’t read it all let alone implement it.
It was like I wasn’t using it , it was using me. Whatever I tried to do in the day , my focus diverted to remind myself what great post I might be reading right now rather than going about my own day to day work How do you approach trp posts so that you don’t fall in this dopamine cycle.
I am aware I’m exuding the typical beta scarcity mindset because the mere thought of reading more shows that I might lack something and I am trying to make up for it but believe me I’m not some incel lol. I’ve got couple plates spinning rn , I’m not trying to boast here but what I’m trying hard to understand is I don’t really need to read a lot of that stuff as of rn bit still I’m tempted to.
Do any of you read those posts just for fun because that’s how I started and it was a downward spiral from thereRead More
Thoughts on re reading a book.
Does it affect the sam as it did when you read it first .
I remember the first time I read the rational male (half of it ) I was a different man for some time. It was like a huge slap of new beliefs on my face.
I’ve caught myself slipping once again for a chick in terms of mindset. I’m definitely exuding some beta behaviour of focusing too much on her. Although I’m not acting out like talking to her all the time. I still seem to have my frame ,but psychologically it’s taxing to see my focus wavering. I don’t even know why is it so.