1w ago The Hub
@Mate1212 I can answer this from a Stepdad perspective. If she chooses a decent guy, you don't think about the sex part, at least if you have your head screwed on correctly. If she were to grow into a THOT, and/or hook up with an obvious dirtbag, it feels like a wasted investment of time and better example offered, but still one does not dwell on the sex parts inherent in her having grown up.
Honest question to fathers: How do you feel when you know your daughter gets railed by here boyfriend? How do you feel when you here your angels cheeks getting clapped? I'm on the boyfriend side and don't care about the father side but I was wondering how it would be on the father side. Some day I might experience it.
1w ago TheRedPill
My gf and I are in a group of people. One guy is super jealous of me beeing here boyfriend. My gf told me that he talks shit about me behind my back. He doesn't has the balls to say it into my face. How do I deal with it?
He probably does this because he hopes we split so he can slip.
When asking here to don't talk with him, she will think there's a reason and it will probably backfire. What should I do?
My gf isn't attracted to him at all he's probably just a beta orbiter.
I liked him and helped him out on some stuff and he does such things. Man I could beat him up.
The next time he fails to succeed with your girl, consider turning him onto a reliable ready reference he can pick up and study to better prepare himself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you point him to Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. Tell this guy to review his advice column to decide if the views on dating and relationships are aligned with what he aspires for himself. To save him a search, give them this scribed link to gander at to find out if the book is something they'd like to add to their library. It should also be available on libgen.
Then let him know that while you appreciate his confirmation of your good taste in women, encourage him to go out there and get his own.
Read More1w ago TheRedPill
My gf and I are in a group of people. One guy is super jealous of me beeing here boyfriend. My gf told me that he talks shit about me behind my back. He doesn't has the balls to say it into my face. How do I deal with it?
He probably does this because he hopes we split so he can slip.
When asking here to don't talk with him, she will think there's a reason and it will probably backfire. What should I do?
My gf isn't attracted to him at all he's probably just a beta orbiter.
I liked him and helped him out on some stuff and he does such things. Man I could beat him up.
1mo ago TheRedPill
What's your opinion on cheating as a man in a relationship? Woman tend to be attracted to males with options. Do you think women will just accept it when you cheat as a man? What are the consequences? Do you think it's morally ok to cheat as a man? Men who cheated, do you regret it? Asking for a friend
Well, maybe you should encourage this friend of yours to register on TRP so they can ask questions for themself. I doubt those are the only ones they've got and we're not the sort to bite.
1mo ago TheRedPill
What's your opinion on cheating as a man in a relationship? Woman tend to be attracted to males with options. Do you think women will just accept it when you cheat as a man? What are the consequences? Do you think it's morally ok to cheat as a man? Men who cheated, do you regret it? Asking for a friend
1mo ago TheRedPill
How far is having feelings for your girlfriend considered normal / ok? Is this a complete black or white thing? Either you love woman or you understand them? Is the "butterfly feelings" emotional dependency?* How do I know wether I'm in a healthy mental condition in the relationship or tend to have onities? And how could I fix this?
In my case this feeling only comes after spending a weekend with here. I just Ignore it.
If you and your girlfriend treat each other in ways that you're both mutually comfortable with, then I can only pray you both work to build something strong and lasting. There's nothing wrong with growing a strong, emotionally fulfilling connection with another human being. You don't need anyone's permission to continue with your girlfriend, let alone to justify or validate the relationships you keep to anonymous nobodies like us.
To help you, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
Read More@Mate1212 It's okay to have feelings for a woman you've been with for 2 years. Don't sperg out. Enjoy the ride.
1mo ago TheRedPill
@redpillschool almost 2 years. She haven't kissed a guy before me and I felt that lol. This is also the reason why I fear onities. The thought that the chance of meeting another chick with same or better quality with such a clean past is getting smaller with every year is haunting me. And I know that nowadays it's unrealistic to stay in a relationship for a lifetime. I can't imagine myself dipping into a second hand girl right now. Might be a bit paranoid but it kinda feels like a ticking bomb, although the relationship is going good so far.
@Mate1212 How long have you been with this chick?