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9h ago The Hub

@woodsmoke well I did check the woman out in depth. Otherwise she wouldn't be my gf.

I ment DGAF to leave here immediately.

In my country if you're not married you only need to pay child support if the woman can't earn enough money. She will earn enough money...

I think most women work the same way. You can avoid 90% of the problems by choosing a woman without redflags. But besides that all women would "stick a gun to your head".

Giving woman that much power is a beta move. Here rifle is without ammunition. I like tastes take:

She won't let you see the kids? No problem make a new family, new kids You don't need to see them you have cooler kids then

Mate1212

5d ago The Hub

I see. For me the only reason to commit to a monogamous relationship is family.

The only thing a girl can give me is puh and kids. I don't need someone who asks me how my day was.

So in my mind either were heading towards family, or she's just a plate.

The whole fatherhood is bad is in my opinion not a good world view. Yes kids are the mother's children. But I think as white "normal" people it's important to have kids.

1/3 of my generation got aborted or so. Europ is getting flooded with Muslims and Africans. The us has similar problems. If we don't make enough babies, European culture and the white race will be gone. ( This is beyond Redpill). My generation has to find a solution to the damage done by feminism.

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carnold03

5d ago The Hub

@Mate1212

If you were 20. Told your gf you want kids between 25 - 28. But your not really sure because you don't know if you will have enough money and if she's really worth it. And she tells you it's a bit early 30 - 32 would be fine.

Is this a reason to break up? Did she just tell me your beta and I do like to keep the gates open. Or is it just normal because of the female timeline?

www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtwiAkUj5Go

Whether you break up or not over this is entirely up to you, but it seems reason enough to not let whatever relationship you believe you have benefit from concern as you reflect on which is more important. Making the investment of the time and energy needed to develop into becoming the sort of man you imagine can handle the concerns of parentage, or continuing to waste time and energy on a responsibility averse fun seeking semen demon.

Mate1212

6d ago The Hub

@Typo-MAGAshiv Of course I do care some sort. You can't tell me you don't be sad if you have get rid of a good plate.

But I'm ready to walk away if I have to. Deal with the pain a few days and go back to spin the plates.

My question is just about interpreting the situation correctly.

Thanks for the video I will view it when I have some spare time.

Mate1212

6d ago The Hub

@MentORPHEUS I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you're doing better.

IDGAF about the woman. My drive is to be a good father. I want to be the father I've never had. I want to awnser the questions of my son that nobody could awnser me when I had them. I want to be the positive role model I've never had.

I don't care about money. If I have something to eat and a blanket and the ability to work out and fight ( muay thai), I'm fine.

MentORPHEUS

1w ago The Hub

@Mate1212 what is YOUR estimation of YOUR readiness to start a family, and YOUR financial ability to accomplish this over the 20+ years ahead of us right now?

By your, I don't mean you personally so much as the present generation.

He'll, when I was coming of age way back in the mid 80s, I was able to sense, despite my naively optimistic idealism, that the world my Boomer parents got married and launched our family in, was already gone forever.

I thought I was ready to launch, and propose to my first girlfriend around age 19-20. But in the moment of almost doing it, I felt an inhibition far deeper than what gets called cold feet. She was a decent woman, though not much of a looker, and the relationship part of it might have worked.

But, I felt an overwhelming sense that the Trad life was not going to be the life for me.

I'm not at all regretful. I had all the things- house, cars business. Covid lock downs rug pulled everything I worked for, for decades. Now I live in the remote desert starting financial life over approaching 60.

Mu Brother, who also had all the things, corporate job wife kids house, got that rug pulled when she ran off with the guy she totally wasn't banging on the side till she was. Now he lives in a small townhouse and was driving Uber for a while after the company got bought out and broken apart and his salary and pension vaporized

As my Grandpa said on his deathbed, "I'm not sad, I feel lucky that I lived during a great time. I feel sorry for you and the generations to come, though!

During my life, there was still some meat on the economic bone. The female centric SMP that TRP works to navigate, isn't the cause but a second order SYMPTOM of Late Stage Capitalism. The American Empire is already over the cliff. I caution young men coming of age now, to be careful and realistic what you hope and strive for. A marriage,, family, and kids started now, will have to exist in a world that is ending as we know it forever, within the time frame of kids born today reaching adulthood.

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Mate1212

1w ago The Hub

If you were 20. Told your gf you want kids between 25 - 28. But your not really sure because you don't know if you will have enough money and if she's really worth it. And she tells you it's a bit early 30 - 32 would be fine.

Is this a reason to break up? Did she just tell me your beta and I do like to keep the gates open. Or is it just normal because of the female timeline?

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carnold03

3w ago Red Pill Me

@Mate1212

How do I know whether I should set a boundary? How do I know whether it is disrespect / offence or just my insecurity of getting cheated on?

I don't want to imprison here because I'm to afraid of getting cheated on but I also don't want to be mr. Nice guy beta cuckold who lets everything slide.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=13RQrZtH09c

Mate1212

3w ago Red Pill Me

@BobcatNo6400 I know. It isn't in the conscious mind. There won't be a better catch for here than me, but sometimes it's just like a gut feeling. Hard to explain

Mate1212

3w ago Red Pill Me

How do I know whether I should set a boundary? How do I know whether it is disrespect / offence or just my insecurity of getting cheated on?

I don't want to imprison here because I'm to afraid of getting cheated on but I also don't want to be mr. Nice guy beta cuckold who lets everything slide.