@Newbie-Casanova

I think you may have misread my post. I am interested in a relationship. Bought these girls are not showing that they want one by dropping male friends like I have asked them to.

My mistake, but your post mentions that you "have side chicks", which I took for 'spinning plates' as the better descriptive for single guys. The problem here is that like a lot of guys you want females to think and prioritize like we might. It'll take time to learn to give that thinking up.

If you're dating someone and they're doing things that leave you doubting that both your relationship goals and theirs are aligned, ghost them, and move on. There's nothing for you to gain spending any additional time, energy, or money on them.

Study the book. It'll help you learn to spot them for the time wasters they are early on. Outside of that, learn to quietly filter them back out of your life, and learn to maintain your drive and enthusiasm to continue the search for women who are looking for the same things you are.

@Newbie-Casanova

Extreme high interest yet keeping options open?

Over the past year I've met a handful of girls with extreme high interest. Yet they lie about having male friends, why is this? And this means these women should never be trusted for a relationship right?

When I say high interest, these are the type of things that the handful of women did. Travel an hour 3x a week to see me, cook and clean, care for me when I was sick, did most things I asked of them. Yet the ONLY thing these women all had trouble doing, was cutting all male friends.

For example this one girl I knew for a month, wanted to see me everyday of the week. Fucks, cooks and cleans. Then she pushes for a relationship. And I said only if she hasn't been talking to any other guys. And she said no she doesn't have guy friends.

I went through her phone to find out that she has guy friends and has been talking to other men. I'm just so confused as to the extreme high interest yet still keeping their options open. Her excuse was "these guys have girlfriends". Which I won't accept as an excuse. So why do girls push for relationship, show extremely high interest, yet do stupid shit like this?

This happen multiple times for other girls.

I have side chicks, earn good money, currently traveling the world, and physically fit and we'll kept.

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Study the book. They're trying to win you over into forming a relationship with them, because knowing that you're not interested in relationship exclusivity leaves some to see it as their hold my beer challenge to change your mind.

If you've made it clear from the start with these girls that you've got an inventory of plates and have zero interest in relationship exclusivity, and they're not taking it as their hint to keep looking elsewhere, then their attempts to otherwise are irrelevant and you now know who to rotate out of your inventory.

Before I begin. I'd like to intro my stats: Early 20's, 6 figure earner, jacked, fashionable, and very experienced with game. I and others would rank my SMV at top 10%. My women is the traditional house wife type. Early 20s, does all the house chores and cooks every single one of my meal. Submissive, respects my time, accepts that I see other women casually, and does exactly as I say. After being with many many women, I understand how hard it is to run into this type of women in the United States. The problem is she knows that I see many women on the side but she doesn't know that I want multiple wives. I plan on staying in another country for a few months. Within those few months I plan on looking for a long term relationship that is a potential wife. When I first met her, I told her she was the only women I would marry. But over time, my horizon expanded and I want more now... First came the casual partners, which she accepted. It is closed on her side, meaning she cannot entertain or see other men. How do i tell her that I will be away for a few months in another country? I have never been away for that long because we live together. Should I even tell her I am looking for another wife or let her find out naturally? She definitely got emotionally damaged from me seeing other women, but she has no other choice because I'm her best option. But I think that another marriage is a step much bigger than just casual sex with others.

@Newbie-Casanova

I have a girlfriend and also spin several plates. I have reached a level in my life where girls are absolutely abundant in all forms. From threesomes to solo dates. But one issue i always always run into is plates ask me whether or not i have a girlfriend. In the past i said yes and the plate usually breaks. They almost always figure this out through my instagram, i have my gf and several other girls on there too. For guys who are experienced with situation such as mine. What is the best response?

Reads more like you've got an open harem with a favorite girl that could otherwise be considered your girlfriend for ease of discussion. Your social media profiles enable you to cultivate the illusion of abundance with minds that have been preconditioned to be easily exploited with staged images of people under bright light, with shiny teeth, and overpriced clothes.

Be honest with them when they ask. It's not like you can't get fresh new plates and it's not their fault social media is fake and gay, only that they were gullible enough to believe it was ever real.