@gearhead Speaking as one of the other men, yes it is a red flag. EVEN if they truely are "just friends" in even the most innocent way, they have either fucked or will fuck, especially if alcohol is involved. Unless she is ugly.
@Alpha_Seeker Vulnerable is not necesarily the same as weak, you can show strength by showing you have the courage to share something that most people would be afraid to share. Just use it judiciously, and don't be a whinning emoting little bitch.
@slutmagazine Weird situation. Don't want HIM having kids?
Not trying to be an ass (i dont usually have to try), but I am being 100% honest when I say this sounds like something out of a Shakespear play. I think this is probably beyond my pay grade.
@slutmagazine Looks like a dude in drag. Definition of resting bitch face. And this is probably the best she has ever looked, makeup and clothes done by paid professional.
@slutmagazine Sorry then. Ok, let me try to be helpful. I think the long term consequences, if this thing went badly, could probably do a lot of harm to your reputation. It seems to be a very dishonorable way to behave. This guy may not deserve your honor, I don't know. But those actions don't seem like the actions of someone that most people would want to do business with and this may backfire on you. Is it worth it? Maybe the short term gain is, not saying it isn't, from where I am I have no way of knowing. If you want to fuck his girlfriend then fuck her, but you might not get the intended consequences you want. Hell, it might be the spark thst ignites his flame.