@RedPillow

The problem with "show less interest in sex" is that it puts you in the friendzone.

You're still with her, committed, spending time with her, but now there's less sex. Instant lack of respect right there, straight into the "friend/family/brother" security zone, which kills her sexual interest.

This is partly why LTRs suck: you lose if you're not too interested in sex, you lose if you're too interested in sex.

The solution: be very interested in sex, ditch her if she isn't on the same page.

Her: "So how many girls have you brought to this restaurant then?" Me: "18. Does it show?"

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Her: "You're pretty shallow, aren't you?" Me: "Yeah, I only go this deep..." (Delivered with eye contact, a smirk, while holding my index fingers 6 inches apart)

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@AlphaMale It's not a balancing act of red and green flags, it's literally about whether your relationship and dynamic is currently working for you or not. That's all there is to it. Flags, whether red or green are potential indicators of whether or not it's going to work for you in the future.

Don't be sex-hungry all the time:

A reccurring lesson I've learned from being in an LTR is that the less you seem like you care about sex, the more she seems to want it, or maybe I should say that if she hints at sex, or sexually flirts with a hot text or something, and you show appreciation, but don't latch onto it like a beggar and try to take it further, then it turns her on more. OI and displaying non-neediness goes a long, long way gents.