But then again, I did get her to squirt, so maybe she I did get her excited a bit?
Be aware, young Chadawan, that not all squirts are created equal. Some come spontaneously in the throes of ecstasy, some are planned and executed dispassionately as a strategy to get the guy to finish already. A good GF might ham it up a bit sometimes for the sake of her man's ego. A not-good one gives false feedback so routinely that she makes her unsatisfying sex life a self-fulfilling prophecy, and confuses/annoys the men who try to offer more than P&D.
A good indicator: A genuine hard orgasm can leave a woman slow and stupid immediately afterward with a gradual fade. One GF used to sigh happily, "You fucked my brains out, again!" Faking it? She can turn the histrionics on and off like a switch, and snaps back to normal and businesslike as soon as you cum.
Read More@helenj You're being too nice. Asking for permission rather than taking what you want. This makes women feel responsible for what happens, which is a turnoff for them.
Don't ask, don't recommend. Be a man, boss her around a bit.
Text her again...... this time like a man....... "You, me, fun little bar I know, Saturday night"
Hello,
I am 33 M divorced male, met a VERY attractive 46 year old divorced female. Even at her age, she turns head.
On our first 'date', we go for drinks for 2 hours at which point it's midnight so we call it a night. I ask if I can give her a kiss on the lips, and she says yes.
Next week, we plan to go to hiking and rock climbing up north. We go hiking and have a great conversation. We get to the hotel, go for dinner, come back, and she takes a shower, and now we're both lying in bed.
We start making out. I pull her hair a bit, squeeze her nipple a bit to which she says it's too hard. Both of us are VERY turned on as I could tell by her wet vagina. I finger her and she squirts. Mind you, I haven't had sex in a year due to my divorce so I'm super stimulated. She starts giving me a BJ and I cum. The whole thing lasted about 7-8 minutes. I blew my load before I could penetrate her. She smiles and comments something alongside that it was fast while wiping off my cum off her face.
In an hour, I try to go for round 2, but she doesn't want it, so we call it a night.
The next morning I asked if she wants to cuddle but it also didn't happen. Anyways, we go for breakfast, have a great conversation, go for another hike, and I drop her off.
She texts me the next day: "I hope you enjoyed the experience as much as I have!" My response: "I had a great time. You were amazing in bed (And I want to return the experience). And the dog made the trip really memorable. So, I recommend we go to a nice restaurant this week".
This was 3 days ago and still no response. I would love some advice here on what's going on in her head, what I should do now, and what I can do better in the future. Thanks
You killed her interest and made some very basic mistakes. Consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.
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@Typo-MAGAshiv Great analysis on the round 2 sex part. You're right, that WAS odd that she didn't even attempt at round 2. In fact, we were supposed to stay an extra night at a cabin in a different city the next day, and she pretty much cancelled it right after sex, citing 'cold weather'. But then again, I did get her to squirt, so maybe she I did get her excited a bit?
To your point earlier though, I think you're right and I should not text her again and just move on. Thank you for your perspective.
@Aging-Chad Thank you for the cold hard truth. I run regularly (which makes me skinny) and follow a decent diet. Is it worth texting her one more time, or not?
To validate your comment that 'she was incredibly disappointed', you're right. We were supposed to stay at a cabin the next night but she ended up cancelling it right after sex because she said 'the weather would be too cold'. :-( It's interesting you picked this up without me leaving it out from the original post.
I'm just so disappointed in myself. She literally was a 9/10 and just my type of look.
Hello,
I am 33 M divorced male, met a VERY attractive 46 year old divorced female. Even at her age, she turns head.
On our first 'date', we go for drinks for 2 hours at which point it's midnight so we call it a night. I ask if I can give her a kiss on the lips, and she says yes.
Next week, we plan to go to hiking and rock climbing up north. We go hiking and have a great conversation. We get to the hotel, go for dinner, come back, and she takes a shower, and now we're both lying in bed.
We start making out. I pull her hair a bit, squeeze her nipple a bit to which she says it's too hard. Both of us are VERY turned on as I could tell by her wet vagina. I finger her and she squirts. Mind you, I haven't had sex in a year due to my divorce so I'm super stimulated. She starts giving me a BJ and I cum. The whole thing lasted about 7-8 minutes. I blew my load before I could penetrate her. She smiles and comments something alongside that it was fast while wiping off my cum off her face.
In an hour, I try to go for round 2, but she doesn't want it, so we call it a night.
The next morning I asked if she wants to cuddle but it also didn't happen. Anyways, we go for breakfast, have a great conversation, go for another hike, and I drop her off.
She texts me the next day: "I hope you enjoyed the experience as much as I have!" My response: "I had a great time. You were amazing in bed (And I want to return the experience). And the dog made the trip really memorable. So, I recommend we go to a nice restaurant this week".
This was 3 days ago and still no response. I would love some advice here on what's going on in her head, what I should do now, and what I can do better in the future. Thanks
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