@redpillmonseur

so I personally believe that there is no such thing as a long distance LTR and have tried my possible best to live my life in this regard but after about 3 months into our relationship my girl said her family pressures her to break off the relationship for the obvious reason that i objected to giving her money for lunch daily( i suggested she take out time to prepare her own meals before she goes out for work and even gave her some money for that instead. according to her, on hearing that, her father asked her to break things off with me that she should find someone who will "Take care of her" this lead to her not being able to come and spend time with me on sundays as she usually did. i did a recap of the entire thing and every goddamn time i see that i have allowed so much shit fly by.

Reads like you dodged a bullet here. If she's left any of her things with you, put them in a box and send them back to her and wish her well in her future endeavors.

@carnold03 so I personally believe that there is no such thing as a long distance LTR and have tried my possible best to live my life in this regard but after about 3 months into our relationship my girl said her family pressures her to break off the relationship for the obvious reason that i objected to giving her money for lunch daily( i suggested she take out time to prepare her own meals before she goes out for work and even gave her some money for that instead. according to her, on hearing that, her father asked her to break things off with me that she should find someone who will "Take care of her" this lead to her not being able to come and spend time with me on sundays as she usually did. i did a recap of the entire thing and every goddamn time i see that i have allowed so much shit fly by.