@symphoniusgreg

A few thoughts:

1. THREE things are absolutely foundational to a decent relationship = Trust + Respect + Sexual Chemistry. Get rid of any of them and it is not going to work. I wrote about this extensively in the past. Still, I agree that Respect is up there.

2. You are bored because you are thinking like a woman. YOU are experiencing a male version of hypergamy. If you keep fucking with low level women, and wonder why "I nolonger feel any excitement" then you might want to consider trying for something different. Either something real, or higher quality women. A woman can be a smoke show and still be a moron. So we're not talking about looks. Up your game.

3. When women behave in the ways we have come to understand are their basic nature, is IS boring. It IS fucked up. It IS even disturbing. Deeply so. That's a part of the journey. Getting past this. It may take a few years, but it will pass.

Once you see the patters for long enough, you realize that we ALL have such motivations and patterns. The mistake would be to think one is above it all. Maslow's hierarchy of needs applies to everyone.

Once you can look in the mirror and see yourself from HER eyes, then you realize that you are all just humans trying to make your way in the world.

I will say this in closing. More important than sex and respect is TRUST. I can tolerate a woman where the respect is hard to earn, or the sex is just tolerable. But if I do not trust her in the ways that I need to trust her, it is not going to work. I think it is the big one.

But that could just be me.

Good luck. Don't do anything, Just keep plugging along and be more selective with your women. That will help.

@symphoniusgreg

In all my time taking the red pill the most important thing I learned that respect is the most important thing in a relationship. But I'm having a problem where I feel like girls respect me too much, they talk to me on my own terms and rarely ever defy me. I act like I cant be seduced so that they dont feel like they can use their bodies to manipulate me. I still can get them to do whatever I want with just a few words but I've gotten bored of it

I nolonger feel any excitement when engaging with them. It all just feels like work to please her. I dont feel a thing because to me they're all the same. How do I fix my new mindset

You lucky bastard. Your problem is that you live in Zimbabwe. Most of Africa hasn't been demoralized. Your educated professional class still believe in god and your women still know the only way they can be a mans equal is by being his loving companion. There is nothing wrong with this. Keep doing what you're doing, exercise, eat well balanced meals, and tell your woman once in a while that you'd like some roast beef while playfully smacking her buttocks.

You may not know this, but to us, you're already living in paradise.