I need to post in there again some time
I alpha widowed my girlfriend by creating a daily vacuum where I check in only in the evening instead of actively text checking in with her throughout the day.
I know we're all a bunch of hard-asses on here, but if this doesn't move you then you're a block of ice:
I suspect this represents the outcome of various PUA and Manosphere figures one upping each other into a hyperbolic extreme.
That's exactly what it is.
50 girls before marriage.
I suspect this represents the outcome of various PUA and Manosphere figures one upping each other into a hyperbolic extreme.
The real advice for young men today, goes Don't MARRY the first woman you sleep with!
If that ever served the interests of men, it became obsolete by around the late 50s..
There exist edge cases and exceptions, but odds run hard against lucking a bona-fide Unicorn into your bed the first time out. It takes experience and reps to learn that Unicorns don't exist, then to replace naive idealism with a SMP version of Realpolitik.
Yes, LTRs hold advantages over hookup culture. But, the counterpoint to this for a young man who aspires to the Marriage and Family life, faces a distinct disadvantage in the marriage marketplace if he passes 25 with just 1 or 2 LTR notches in his bed post.
Divorce laws as they stand, make the stakes dangerously high, selecting a wife candidate with more blind trust than actual experience.
@Typo-MAGAshiv I guess it really comes down to how well do we spend our time. I agree with you
I've had a much more pleasant experience when I was into social dance, and I would recommend men to try it.
Maybe because the scene in my city centered around dance schools and their parties, and the instructors usually monitored and discouraged extreme behavior in there.
It might also have to do with the kind of dance, e.g. I expect Latin to have more cluster B's than Rock 'n' Roll or Tango. It might also have to do with Europe vs the US.
teeling other guys to focus on getting the money before them girls,
Bad advice.
Men should practice game as soon as they learn about it because nothing teaches and hones skill like experience.
All the manosphere dudes who say shit like "don't date until you're 30" or "don't date until you make [arbitrary yearly income]" or other such crap are setting men up for failure.
Because if you're 30, have your finances in order, but zero experience with women, guess what that makes you?
Easy pickings for Epiphany Phase women who have "had their fun" and are "ready to settle down" with a beta bucks.
