The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
19h ago TheRedPill
Me M(24) and my LTR F(24) have been together for 2 years, she was a virgin before she met me and gave it up in 2 weeks. The first year she was interested in me sexually, often times initiating sex when we are together. Now in the second year she has moved long distance due to her job, when we are together (sometimes only one day a month) she denies and does not iniate sex.
After being in this LTR I had begun to get lazy and comfortable again resulting in my previous BP'ed mentality coming through.
Something related to this topic is that my LTR feels uncomfortable discussing about anything sexual.
Can I salvage this LTR?
You should've cut her loose when she let you know that she'd need to move for her job and gotten yourself back on the hunt. Her decision to move was the most glaringly obvious sign that the relationship with you wasn't valuable to her.
In the meantime, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
Read More1d ago TheRedPill
Me M(24) and my LTR F(24) have been together for 2 years, she was a virgin before she met me and gave it up in 2 weeks. The first year she was interested in me sexually, often times initiating sex when we are together. Now in the second year she has moved long distance due to her job, when we are together (sometimes only one day a month) she denies and does not iniate sex.
After being in this LTR I had begun to get lazy and comfortable again resulting in my previous BP'ed mentality coming through.
Something related to this topic is that my LTR feels uncomfortable discussing about anything sexual.
Can I salvage this LTR?
3d ago TheRedPill
Fair point. I was thinking "funny" in the sense to which @lurkerhasarisen referred of dudes cracking jokes and laughing about the times we've been sexually harassed/assaulted by a woman 'cause what the fuck else are we going to do about it?
@SwarmShawarma that comic strip is not so 'comic' ...its more of a documentary
@TheRedPike holy shit, you're alive!
Maybe @goodmansaysfuckyou can come out of his coma too...
4d ago TheRedPill
Nah, that was when I was in the West.
The boss was a woman anf she caught the whores lying (they claimed that I was the one that harrassed them).
That was definitely an unexpected twist.
@Typo-MAGAshiv That 'fumbling fumbalina' was obviously a lesbian.
Which is why she was promoted way way above her skill level in the first place. This is the true cost of DEI quotas and targets.
Fumbelina was both a woman and a lesbian, so she ticked two boxes for the price of one. Result!!!
Except for the protection thing that she was supposed to be doing.
But hey, you can't have everything, right? And diversity is our number one priority right?
So quit moaning.
@Vermillion-Rx sure.
But my point still stands.
if you're a female soldier, and you go running to HR demanding an inquiry every time somebody makes you 'uncomfortable' with because of 'inappropriate behaviour' then how the hell are you going to be any use when someone from your unit steps on a landmine and loses the lower half of their body?
Because my understanding is that its not like in the movies. If you blow up somebody, and they loose both their legs, they don't just die. They lay there talking, with their intestines and guts spilling out into the ground. They can take about 20 minutes to die. I've heard of guys that have been blown apart vainly trying to put their intestines back into the gaping hole that used to be their stomach. Crawling around looking for their legs.
If you need to run off to get a grown up when you are feeling 'uncomfortable' about a situation, you're going to be a liability in a combat situation.
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