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@Mountainman just so you know:
1) the guy you're replying to spams that stupid book at every opportunity
2) almost every active user on this site has him blocked and/or is blocked by him
3) he's probably a virgin, and thus clueless on what works
Complete noob to all this here, looking for advice.
Alright, so long story short, I'm from a third world country in South Asia, born and raised. 6'0, 83kg, skinny fat. I'm employed and I recently started doing Muay Thai in weekends. I'm 22, and I've never really had a girlfriend or anything like that, but I do want to start fucking women.
I completely understand and agree with everything that is discussed on here, but I think the problem is execution - most girls over here aren't fluent in English, and I'm not all that fluent in the local language. And most of them are hellbent on marriage and shit, so it's hard to find a thing to fuck.
Again, complete noob here idk. Hit me with your best advice. Not a big social media guy so I probably typed this all out wrong but eh
While local girls tend to seek a future husband, foreign girls will oftentimes be more receptive to a casual fling. Keep at the Martial arts, get a solid 7+ hours of sleep, and work yourself up to be a good sparring partner for the guys looking to go pro. If it's an option open to you, spend some time and energy hitting up the tourist spots.
Regardless of which path you take, you should consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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@Durek_The_Bald 100% that’s my problem. I know they can smell it on me haha.
I had to move back home in the past 18 months to help with my parents. My uncle committed suicide and the fallout from that has been exhausting. She kinda takes advantage of my people pleasing tendencies and I’m just been stuck here. On top of that my business doubled. And I totaled my car in April and have been rehabbing my back ever since. I’m like a shell of myself and I’m rushing for some sweet pussy I can’t get. Pretty much just to distract myself.
As soon as I buy a house, or just decide on another apartment, I’ll have space and the time to regulate everything going on that’s showing up on the surface.
Thanks for your input
@MentORPHEUS oh man I know I have a bad habit of not completing eye contact with people….meaning I’ll look away too soon or look slightly away from them that way if they’re not actually looking at me, then I have plausible deniability…I’m acting like a bitch. Weed doesn’t help either. Thanks for your input boss, I’m going to really work on this
I can't reply straight
Yeah same
I recently started doing Muay Thai in weekends.
Also combat sport is mainly for confidence boost, weight are for looks.
sidebar
I found that FIFTY SHADES OF RED. By illimitablemen chapter would be a great introduction to sidebar book. It really connects many dots right away. I would start reading with that.
@adam-l I can't reply straight to @Felix-Brohier for some reason (spam filter? Tag @Vermillion-Rx), so I'll piggy-back off your reply.
I recently started doing Muay Thai in weekends.
Great! Lift weights too.
I'm not all that fluent in the local language
Work on that. Can you use Babel or Rosetta Stone or some other language learning program?
complete noob here
Have you read the TRP sidebar?
If you're finding them to be "hellbent on marriage" there's a good chance you're giving off provider signals rather than fuck signals.
Alpha/arousal behavior and traits lead to sex.
Beta/comfort/provisioning behaviors and traits tend to dry women out unless they are earned. In other words, you don't buy shit for a woman you aren't already fucking.
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Good you give some details this way people can give you some more specific tips.
A woman I slept with 8 years ago reaches out flirting and I fucking fumble the shit out of it. I
don't get women seriously, she might only want a quick validation
. I’ve had dozens of partners over my life,
I don't smoke, so don't know effects, but going by others, this could finally take the toll. I didn;+'t see you have been out of market for any extended period of time.
I’m probably going to get told to read the side bar
Sidebar is not only sidebar, there are further references. Sidebar is starting point. You need to find what resonates the most with you the most as your circumstances may vary.