@Carl-Singes

hello everyone, im very new to trp. anyone who can show me the ropes (send me short material to skim or something), i would be grateful. ive grown sick of stressing myself out by trying to tell myself that the world is good and that all the people in it are good and want good things. the disillusionment is setting in.

Consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several sites and a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.