Someone who will be by your side during the lowest lows. Doesn't try to hit on your girls. Who you could trust with $10k and give it back when you ask for it.
Unfortunately, most men lack the integrity/discipline/mental fortitude for those things. I'm 10x more dilligent in vetting men closest to me as I am with girls I sleep with.
I'm at a point where I have no interest in hanging out 1-on-1 or in small groups with men that have nothing remarkable about them or at least one quality I admire.
@Bozza I just went through the exact same behavior with a plate until she dropped me for someone she wanted to date 'more seriously'. I think, like you mentioned, it has to do with insecurity + like MentORPHEUS mentioned, bad girl game. Add contradicting self-interests into the mix as well.
It's weird. I think this is just a phase where your RP understanding & game is good, but not perfected yet. As a noobie, you are usually responsible for breaking a plate because you fucked up. For advanced guys, it will rarely be because of a mistake on their part and usually because the girl chose to go a different direction for some reason mostly unrelated to you.
As an intermediate it can be both & sometimes hard to differentiate if you caused a certain outcome/behavior or if it was inevitable.
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