@LampinWhileTappin It depends what you are doing in regards to if you really need to stop it. If you're training, or in university, or writing a book, etc then your extra money isn't worth all that much compared to staying fresh. For example, I had access to many massage parlors in Odessa. I was working a job and writing a book. It was an unsustainable amount of work. I didn't have time to continually dating women, keeping a girlfriend happy, or to be swiping on an app. So I worked about 14 hours a day between the book and my job, and then when I'd get a tingle down there I'd just go off to be with a 9. It's a very good strategy for hacking your brain into tolerating something that is otherwise intolerable (like working so damn much). It was one of the most productive periods of my life, and without any feelings of depression.
However, if you're just working normal hours and have time for women, and have a use for your money then it could be considered an negative addiction. In my situation the job was not something that I could just quit, and the book needed many hours put into it. So in that situation my extra cash meant little to nothing.
I'd be willing to bet that if the hookers are as good and cheap as you say that they are, then there is also many other normal women to date. That generally happens because there is a huge surplus of quality women. If you have the time to spend then try to use it being a normal human with normal human interactions.
Read MoreMost of my money goes to hookers!
Recently I found this place with really good looking hookers. They are very clean and very submissive they treat you as a king there. I go there frequently all the workers there know me and what gets me. The issue is that most of my money is spent there, and do not say rub a hand!
Have you ever dealt with such situation before? What did you do I cannot stop it
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@LampinWhileTappin This is a well mapped out area with LOTS of resources you can choose from to work with.
Assertiveness training. Look into this a bit and feel free to ask any questions that come up.
There are probably psychological barriers at work here too. Maybe you don't give yourself permission to take certain risks or be right or something..? Or that you won't be liked/accepted if you "boss" others around..?
Gents of RP,
In regards to talking with others (men and women):
How do I overcome this? Is it related to voice speed, pausing between words to be more dramatic, body language, story telling, personality?
I doubt my reply will help you, since you already seem set in your career. However, this is for any man pondering what career to choose.
One of the many advantages of the skilled trades, especially in the unions, is the temporary nature of most work assignments.
How do you deal with a micromanaging boss?
I either suck it up for the few weeks remaining on the job, or quit and go sign a book at a local hall and get a new job referral the next day.
How do you deal with a micromanaging boss?
So this month we got a new boss (Cyber-sec department) and he is really bad at both the technical and managerial skills (he got his positions due his strong contacts and relationships). He does not know how to manage people or how to manage IT solutions unfortunately. Anyhow, his style in management is micromanagement and this is really bugging us out, we cannot find a way to work this out professionally.
Whenever something pops in his head he wants that to be DONE NOW, even if you are working on a critical task, he will want you to just drop what you have and work on what he asked you; This has caused us to have somethings backfire at me due to his style of (drop what's in your hand and do what I want NOW). Then he will put the blame on me not being able to work concurrently!
Gentlemen, this is my first time working with such management style, need your input and guidance on this I want to excel at my position but this manager might effect this
@drake offers solid counsel here as it's not your company, but someone else's. However, I think the writing is being put on the wall. Read this book, update your resume, and consider applying to other companies, pursuing contracting, or building your own company.
Three months ago you complained about a newly hired female coworker. Now you're complaining about a recently hired moron of a manager. Given that you've since revealed you're in cyber security, I'm disinclined to see these situations as isolated incidents, but the beginning of a trend. You might want to plan a quiet professional exit before things escalate.
Read MoreHow do you deal with a micromanaging boss?
So this month we got a new boss (Cyber-sec department) and he is really bad at both the technical and managerial skills (he got his positions due his strong contacts and relationships). He does not know how to manage people or how to manage IT solutions unfortunately. Anyhow, his style in management is micromanagement and this is really bugging us out, we cannot find a way to work this out professionally.
Whenever something pops in his head he wants that to be DONE NOW, even if you are working on a critical task, he will want you to just drop what you have and work on what he asked you; This has caused us to have somethings backfire at me due to his style of (drop what's in your hand and do what I want NOW). Then he will put the blame on me not being able to work concurrently!
Gentlemen, this is my first time working with such management style, need your input and guidance on this I want to excel at my position but this manager might effect this
Read MoreWe both joined the company at the same time, we are both new there I am not sure of her past career
If you already can tell she's difficult to work with then supervisors and managers are likely aware. Have you taken your concerns up with them yet?