I'm giving up lol, girl said she will call me back after we had a good convo on the phone and never called back it's been 8 days
If you mean giving up on her in particular, then good. Next that bitch. You should have other prospects in the works already.
If you mean giving up in general, don't do that. Reassess, and make adjustments.
I also can't get no matches on dating apps.
Then don't use them. Stick to meatspace.
Dating was so easier when I was young and in grade school.
What's different? Did you get fat?
I'm giving up lol, girl said she will call me back after we had a good convo on the phone and never called back it's been 8 days. I also can't get no matches on dating apps. Dating was so easier when I was young and in grade school.
what are the contexts where you are not shy? Focus on them, for starts.
Shyness is a subconscious belief that you are not high enough in the dominance hierarchy. This belief might be acurate, in which case you should self-improve, or inacurate, in which case you need to flip your mentality, by gradual exposure or even by therapy if need be.
@WaveGod- learn not to be shy. Much like overcoming a fear of heights, this is done by confronting the situations that you fear.
@moorekom I'd add to both what you and @Initial-Glove said to @WaveGod- that I had my best closing rate and saved the most energy when I only approached the women who gave me IOIs.
Where do you guys meet women?
+ Also how do I become less shy and more confident
You can meet females just about any place these days thanks in no small part to the encroachment of cultural rebellion in the form of female suffrage and cultural Marxism. You can't throw a stone without hitting one, but if you're shy it might be best that you first work on your public speaking and conversation skills. If you're in college take an basic speech or communications course as it's one of the few core courses that were still held some utility last time I looked. Join the debate club. Check out toastmasters. Take a few dance and aerobics classes. Talk to your classmates, males and females alike. Pursue hobbies that need you to socialize and interact with other people.
