Cheezy 2.0 here, I'm 19M/IND (5'5", I'd say I'm 7/10, I lift, have hobbies and take care of my body). I've swallowed the red pill 10 months ago but decided to focus on other shit and mental issues. I'm back in college, I thought I should start cold approaching irrespective of results and log them here, so here goes:
Day 1 : Went out for a walk in the hostel area along with an (idiot) mate of mine, 3 girls caught my attention and I attempted to make small talk, only to be hit with "we're seniors by the way (they were not and I realized this when I came back to my room)" and me mumbling some mega autistic ape shit and stumbling on my way out. I wanted to approach 3 more but I couldn't due to feeling deflated. So yeah, big L. But weirdly, I'm happy I went way outside my comfort zone to place my balls on the rejection chopping board. Adding to this was the friend who I'd thought would make a good wingman, but ended up laughing loudly when the senior thing happened so yeah, gonna approach alone from now on.
Read More@AFTSOV I have an okay looking face, so it's usually a simple "hi", nothing too creepy or PUA-esque, then I strike up a convo based on something she's wearing (I did this with a 10 at a Crocs store once about her feet looking funny in Crocs) and based on the responses I get I move accordingly. Not every girl is receptive, once in a while I get funny stares and cold responses (which I don't take personally) but it's all worth it when there finally is a girl who is down to hang out.
Seriously, if my manlet ass can get into shape and pull bitches, so can you 5'10" or >6' fat fucks.
@redpillschool YES sir! it's a soft next on my end, with a date I'll set up when I get back to my town. If she's eager to meet, I'll deal with it accordingly. If not, bye-bye!
@deeplydisturbed haha yeah, I'm young and newly pilled and unplugged. Did I mention I was King Billy Betabux Nice Guy AFC about 9 months back?
It's a soft next on this one from my side, I'll set up a date and isolate and escalate, but if this one flakes, its her loss as I'll be having fun with some other girl anyways and this one ain't nothing special.
Like I said, I was not too emotionally invested on this one, and I won't be on my next one either, to me these are learning experiences but I make sure I have fun while gaming bitches unlike many who anally dissect the sidebar and try to apply game like it's some mathematical theory or something.
Also, no more video calls, like ever, unless it's a LTR or something.
@cheesypongas2pointoh but seriously, next her. If she's interested your silence will spark her interest. If she's not, then it's a good thing you've already NEXTED!
@cheesypongas2pointoh Oh oh I know this one!
How do I get frame back here (IND//19M/she's 18F)
Matched with this chick on a dating app, I'd say 6/10 (I'm 5'6", working out and have an okay physique), at first it was all "giving" from her side over text ("good morning!!!", "I can't wait", "you're so different", you get the idea) but ever since we did a video call (I'm travelling and not in town) on Tuesday (I might have said 1-2 autistic things) the interest seems to have diminished, as in I'm the one texting (she does reply promptly tho), no more spontaneous stuff from her side, etc. I'm feeling I've lost frame here and she's lost interest, though she had said early on that her workload was immense. Is it possible to regain frame here? Should I call it out or ignore it and keep her on the side as I go for the next one? Or is it just the workload as she'd mentioned and I'm overthinking it? I have no dearth of access to girls (will be going back to college soon) but I am a bit concerned about mistakes in my game that can affect me pulling bitches in college, which is on the slightly tougher side for me as I've been blessed with life on hard mode as a 5'6" manlet lol.
Can a veteran point out how I fucked up?
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