How do i navigate breaking up with this girl?
I've been dating this girl for about a year, we are exclusive but never officialy gf and bf, however its very obvious we've caught feelings for eachother. I've been trying to break up but i cant just go through with it. I dont see a LTR in her but yet i dont want anyone else to have her. She is the best sex ive ever had and very fun to be around, but on her bad days she is toxic, nasty and controlling. She has had kind of a sad upbringing and i dont wanna break her heart, whats the best way to do this? Should i just tell her the truth about the things i dont like about her? Is it better to just tell her i wanna date other people?
What’s a way to ask a gal if she’s seeing other dudes or where her mindset is?
Seeing like 4 girls but I’m tired of the cycle and one is relationship worthy - wanna ask her what she’s sees with us but don’t wanna seem needy or in her frame
Has she at all asked about relationship potential with you yet?
Can’t get from sex to plate and second dates?
I’ve been having sex but I can’t get past the sex phase to plating a girl, or get from 1st to second date.
I’ve been meeting a ton of women through dating apps, a lot of these were preemptive since I hadnt fully moved to a new city. I’m not against approaching I just have been extremely busy with other life obligations so this was the best option in the interim until I got settled.
Most of these never reach the second date. Tbh im not sure what im doing, im not awkward I have a pretty cool life stories to share I let the girl talk.
To be fair most of these dates do go well it seems more something from the first to the second date im fucking up.
The first two I went on I think I fucked up because I mentioned that I was quitting my job and both seemed to have a negative reaction even though I had talked to about it before with one and she seemed to be suprised when i mentioned it
Once I stopped mentioning this the dates got better. I kissed closed one, had sex with two. The other girl fizzled out but tbh I had no desire to do anything with so I was fine with that.
I texted the kiss close asking what she was doing and she responded “hopefully hanging out with you” then deleted it lol but i saw and playfully joked. Then a couple days later she just went dead, responded she was busy with no alternative then stopped answering.
Of two I had sex with one I don’t want to see again, the other is barely responding, again giving wishy answers no alternative dates for plans.
I started approaching irl and plan on joining a couple clubs kind of sick of the online thing even though im getting a lot of matches. I approached a couple girls today at the grocery store and coffee shop.
Edit: oh I forgot to mention im getting a ton of numbers through the apps but most don’t even respond. I wait a couple days sometimes a week usually because I forget and am busy with work, any advice on this?
Study the book. Your online profile should've already given those females some basic info about yourself. When taking these females out on dates, it's best to keep them talking about themselves, because you need to confirm if the person in front of you is consistent with the image of them you've imagined based on their profile. Moreover, if she's on an actual date with you, you need to interview them to decide if they're worth your time and energy, or just a bang and bounce.
If talking about yourself, specifically about your work-life with females kills their interest in you, then you're going to need to stop talking about your work-life with females. You should look into breaking up your free-time by exploring hobbies to settle on those which interest you and finding real-life face-to-face male acquaintances to socialize with.
Read More5h ago The Red Pill of Finance
How an Economy Grows and Why It Doesn't
"Irwin A. Schiff, America's leading expert on the Federal Income Tax, presents economics in his thoroughly informative, yet always entertaining manner; proving that the only thing -dismal- about the "dismal science" must be those who normally teach and write about it. Without a doubt, anyone reading Schiff's hilarious allegory will have a far better understanding of economics than many who have pursued the subject full time at our nation's universities."
The comicbook is mentioned on Youtube, Bitchute, and can be found at various online libraries like libgen.
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Read MoreI'm 26, I was born with a very small skeletal frame (my wrists are less 6 inches around). Most of my life I weighed 110 lbs at 5'7. I've been hitting the gym HARD for 3 years, 5 days a week. Calorie surplus, enough protein, everything. Now, most of my newbie gains are gone. I've gained like 70 lbs and I still don't look like I lift. My biceps are still under 14 inches. Most people that I've met at the gym get to my size in 6 months. It's humilliating.
My background is in Biology and I remember reading a study in college where they got like 100 new lifters and put them on a 3 month training program while monitoring their nutrition. Some lifters gained 5 lbs, some gained 30. My point being that genetics vary wildly and unfortunately I was just dealt a bad hand. I just happen to be on the far low end of responders.
I don't want to be small forever. Life is unfair but that doesn't mean we have to like it. Should I start taking steroids ? Should I get silicone implants ? Inject synthol ? I'd like to know what you people think.
If you think you've got bad genetics you've got two options going forward. Well, four, at least.
First, suck start a loaded pistol and take yourself permanently out of the game of life, preventing you from imparting those bad genes to future generations. While I acknowledge that the option exists, that shouldn't be mistaken for any sort of endorsement of suicide on my part. Second, you can do what guys like @58to62LegLengthening did by traveling to Turkey, or some other country, and drop some serious dough undergoing lengthy cosmetic surgery that addresses the aesthetic deficiencies genetics presumably burdened you with, leaving you to spend months recovering from the operations, before telling everyone who is otherwise uninterested in knowing that you're an aesthetically better person, despite your obvious deep psychological issues only getting worse.
Third option, you give up on procreating by getting a vasectomy enabling you to sport f#$% from here onward, then ask male relatives who you feel have genetics you lack if they'd be willing to donate their nut butter to be used at some time in the future for your children. Fourth option, do what men have chosen for thousands of years, invest the time and energy to seriously evaluate yourself, identify your various limitations and develop a plan to engage them, so as to transform yourself as close as you can into the man you otherwise envision you could one day be. Lifting weights and exercising is a good start, but comparing yourself to others is not helping.
While you mull those options over, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
Read More19h ago The Hub
*OK, WHICH one of you did they write this about?
Article that popped up on my Firefox BS start page suggestions:
Why men are shaving off their eyelashes
www.cnn.com/2025/04/30/style/male-beauty-standards-eyelashes/index.html
1d ago Visual Arts
Reinventing Comics: The Evolution of an Art Form
In 1993, Scott McCloud tore down the wall between high and low culture with the acclaimed international hit Understanding Comics, a massive comic book that explored the inner workings of the worlds most misunderstood art form. Now, McCloud takes comics to the next level, charting twelve different revolutions in how comics are created, read, and perceived today, and how they're poised to conquer the new millennium.
Part One of this fascinating and in-depth book includes:
- The life of comics as an art form and as literature
- The battle for creators' rights
- Reinventing the business of comics
- The volatile and shifting public perceptions of comics
- Sexual and ethnic representation on comics
Then in Part Two, McCloud paints a breathtaking picture of comics' digital revolutions, including:
- The intricacies of digital production
- The exploding world of online delivery
- The ultimate challenges of the infinite digital canvas
You can find mention of this book on both Youtube and other websites.
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