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@NeoSpartan I didn't know who Patrick Bateman was. Now I know why: I haven't watched that movie.
Interesting point. I'll have the chance over the weekend to be around virtually the same group of people. I'll try focusing more on myself instead of 50% on me and 50% on them. I'm not sure if he'd lie about them, but he was quite drunk (at one point he was telling how some guy was smart and 5-10 mins later he'd tell me that he's stupid). I'm try to be more self-centered and with them in particular more of a shutin. But as a general rule I'll tell the dude that I won't be joining any future group events that they're having. :)
Thanks for the time and effort NeoSpartan. I'll keep you posted, if you're interested how this turns out.
Spent forty minutes last night to grab the three photos and they're literally just me in different locations in the house.
My profile is fairly blank:
well traveld dog lover
second tour in Portland, though I've been here long enough to know better
roller better blunts than you can probably cook better too
Thinking about adding a photo of me shotgunning a 32oz can of Modelo outside because this profile is geared towards ratchets.
First round of swiping on a fresh tinder account:
- 20 matches out of (idk how many swipes tinder gives)
- Average age is 18-22
- Following that up is 27-30
- Mainly 15s-19s out of 30 (mid 6s and low 7s)
I'll pump out more statistics for your after I start sending messages/engaging.
My accounts set up as a thirst trap with one photo of me smirking, lifting my hoodie, the other sparking a blunt (face shot) and a third of me and my dog looking cute.
@Dr_Cockasaurus Oh god..... now he's saying "it's so cringe the way all the pickup sites post picks of guys having fun with girls and guys....... and it's cringe that I too have to post picks of me having fun with guys and girls.... they do it and it's cringey, and I do it too"...... but we're somehow to believe that it's the OTHER sites that are the problem? This sounds so hypocritical
@R3v4mp3d I was suggesting you might have been doing it unconsciously. Also hahaha, you sound a bit like Patrick Bateman dude XD
It sounds like you do mostly consciously what most people do mostly unconsciously, re: the assessment and judging of others. Maybe try and adjust that laser focus lizard mind to calibrate inward a slight bit and be more aware of your own presentation. Dunno if that guy was lying or w/e about the girls but... if he wasn't you might want to adjust your focus to yourself a bit.