@Vermillion-Rx

Be attractive

• get clothing that fits properly
• clothing color that matches your skin complexion
• hang your clothing (no wrinkles/fold marks)
• learn to do laundry properly (get stains out)
• hygiene: nails, facial hair, including eyebrows
• find a fragrance you enjoy and wear it
• have a few clean pairs of shoes for going out
• do something with your hair
• fix your fucking posture

Basic shit that you don't really have to do to pull pussy but women inherently notice and will give you a slight advantage before ever opening your mouth.

It's not even just about women. All people instinctively judge you first based on your appearance and you will get treated better if you look well put together.

Don't be unattractive

The life experience that hammered this home for me happened around 19/20 when I was just a young burn out. Hair long, shaggy and unkempt. Dressed in ripped up pajama pants (like jeans with holes in the knees) and free head shop t-shirts you got for dropping money on glass. Probably even smelled like weed.

Had an issue with my bank account and the branch manager basically told me while yes my account is set up not to over draft, its on me to make sure it remains in the green, so I'd be stuck with the fees. Didn't even walk me away from the tellers. I was brushed off.

Walked into the same bank for the same issue, with the same manager a month later. He took us back into his private office, got treated to snacks and a soda while he waved all my overdraft fees and apologized for the mix up. Explaining the same thing as before in a much nicer tone. With exact outcome I desired.

The only thing that had changed was my appearance. I stopped in after a job interview with a button up tucked into dress pants and my hair put together. Same mannerisms on my end, world of difference as to how I was treated because he assumed I was something I was not, based solely on how I physically presented myself.