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Masturbation is not a solution, it makes one feel drained of energy and a loser
That's a mindset that you're actively choosing. You can also actively choose the mindset that it's a release and will help you sleep. Just practice moderation, and don't become one of those coomers who can't go a few hours without a fap.
As far as the real thing, I'd probably try to get out of that country. If you don't want marriage and/or kids (at least not yet), but fornication is illegal and high-risk, I don't see much reason to stick around if this is important to you.
@WaveGod- joking around aside, one of the ways to help yourself get rid of approach anxiety is to keep in mind that it's a relic in our caveman brains from way back in the day, that if you tried and failed with one cavewoman, she'd tell all the other cavewomen in the cave-village, and due to pre-selection, you'd have no prospects at all.
In this day and age, that simply isn't the case anymore. You can strike out 50 times in one evening, and still get the f-close on your 51st approach.
Knowledge must triumph over instinct.
After a few rejections, you'll see that it isn't that big a deal after all.
Why women are bad drivers? They know the rules etc. But they just don't care. They can have the coolest car in the world and they will still use all the cruise control all the time. Then you drive with her and she set the car to keep distance from the car in front and it all the time makes stupid unnecessary braking. She drives same road every day and still she drives 80kmh and suddenly brakes when it ends instead of just take the leg off the gas. That's just dumb. But she quickly conformed with all the disadvantages and for her its just important she can pay less attention. She doesn't drive where she wants using car. She gets in the car, joins the traffic and she goes how the car wants with the flow of traffic. If limit is 120 but there is some slower car she might suddenly start breaking and stay behind him. That's what happens also with low testosterone guys. Anything changes on the road and they are like braking then accelerating then putting signal to overtake then they don't overtake. Or staying so close to the car in front of them and then pissed off if he changes speed at because they are basically almost crashing.
Get your acting together, you wanna die for stupid reason? You wanna crash for stupid reason? Where are you going, why you even go there, do you want to, or have to? Do you even know?
People don't know. They just get stupid cars, they get big houses, then they get insurance for everything and drive between same 2 places everyday. Did they count that the car costs them 40% of their income? Did they count they spend 2h a day in car? No. But they would tell they are "hustlers", "boss lady". Laughing out loud. I know tens of girls who live like that. Not bad income, but a lot of debt, always upgrading car, and not rally going anywhere in life.Read More
The fact that you have to resort to humor means it's already dysfunctional
Bruh... it's a funny song about a then-current event, you're supposed to just enjoy it or not for what it is and leave it at that.
This comment is like a wack Amazon review. It's not all serious and integrated with the author's life and values like that classic Mein Kampf. Don't know how people can read this drivel. 1/5 stars for this jester level shit.
@MentORPHEUS The fact that you have to resort to humor means it's already dysfunctional. Once you get the point where you say thank god the jester said what he did, you know you have a tyrant.
People say down with the system but they don't know how far back you have to go with that.