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@destraht To be honest I see the same behaviour in some men, however that usually results in some kind of productivity and not solely boosting their own self-image. At least girls give you credit for not caving to their whims, some guys can really hold a grudge just because you don't want to "do something fun" while you're on vacation.
I totally agree. Fuck it, it may seem 'misogynistic', but I have an underlying attitude that the girls I see are pretty much always doing chores for me. Even if it is seeing each other with the intent to fuck.
I have survived shit and rebuilt my life from far worse than most of them will ever see. I work a fucking tough job, and literally have people's lives in my hands on a daily basis. I get my ass to the gym, make good money and still have plans to do more.
My attitude is one of 'baby, when you achieve what I have and do what I do, I'll run chores for you'.
They are absolutely happier when serving a high-value male. The key is to work hard enough where you can assume that role organically, instead of some ASKtrp dude trying to be a fake Chad.
@INNASKILLZ2K20 From my limited experience they seem to create the justification for being able to feel any way that they want to feel and for assessing anyone else in any way that they choose. If you take one of these types (just several in my life) to a calm peaceful place then they will create a huge busyness for themselves. Likely everyone who isn't as busy as them is just lazy and to be looked down upon to a degree. At the perfect beach in paradise and they will exercise more, snorkel more, explore more, plan more, etc. Just moar than everyone else. Look how busy they are.
@destraht Yes! This is another pretty common feature. They seem to love taking on more than they can handle.
They do that a lot. We give them certain tasks to finish and they will take on extra shit which has no great relevance but totally messes them up.
I wonder if it is a good set-up for a crisis. The old 'I just have sssooo much happening, which is why I am so stressed' routine.
@INNASKILLZ2K20 I also think that it's somewhat of the responsibility of the man to assign choirs to keep his non-professional woman occupied. You keep them busy by knocking them up, having a garden to tend, maybe a goat to milk, a garage bar to clean, etc. Tens of millions of American men failed by making a horribly boring home and having their wife hang out there all damn day with nothing to do. Sure they need to be self-starters to a degree, but I think that are happier when like half of their life has been delegated to them already. They just need to figure out the other half. It's important to mention that when they are professional women then they are simply spending their full working day under the dominion of another man. That isn't healthy.
@INNASKILLZ2K20 I was dealing with a probably borderline chick last year. She would have like three projects going at once, was constantly dropping projects, starting new ones due to her partner for that project not working out, etc. I was just staying on 2 projects at any given moment and sometimes shelving one for another for a week or two. Just slow and steady. But it wasn't enough because I was lazy. Nobody works as hard as she does. So I would just see that over a short time she was all over the damn place. It never occurred to her "I've failed four times while being stressed and he is still on point".