the ability to walk away unscathed is your biggest and really only power as a man.

Next course of action? Started hooking up with a girl early ~5 months ago very consistently and often, staying the night daily she was only sleeping with me claiming best she's ever had, and that she loves me I've been lying saying I am exclusive to her, but to be fair, seldom was I hooking up with other girls since I had her as my consistent "One Special Girl," started treating her like such is where I went wrong, more purple pilled tactics, frame slipping, started caring about what she wore out, and to where, she was selling me the dream very well. Halloweekend I went full blown beta and was supposed to sleepover at hers and got very upset and essentially crashed out while drunk because my driving scared her and she wanted to wait to see me til I sobered up. wake up the next morning not remembering what I did, it was bad. Yelled at her to kill herself said I'd never see her again in front of her friends, etc. Apologized profusely, but she still wanted space. Said I'd give it to her, and she told me her timeline of forgiveness wouldn't be within mine and that we should focus on ourselves. Accepted defeat. "Focusing on myself," and went out essentially on a double date last night and posted everyone except the girl I was with out of sheer coincidence and she did detective work to see that there was indeed another girl there. It's a birthday outing and I can lie and say she was their friend She messaged me "so much for focusing on yourself" and even edited it to fix a typo. Blocked on socials, but not on iMessage. respond with a question mark and call her back within an hour. Sound like a beta just typing this, but the sex was good and she was very invested. Often driving hours back and forth to see me. Opinions? Focus on myself; work, gym, other girls and this one will crawl back with time, if not who GAF. I'm definitely the prize here btw.

Walking away is your biggest power as a man. I've walked away in the past a couple of times. It always hurted even though it was the right thing to do.

Maybe it took longer than it could have. But I always did. Whether it was disrespect from here side, or other opinions of the future together. I've always walked away before getting cheated on.

But It always hurt. It scratched on the "psychological health". Higher bpm when I thought I'm about to end it or I couldn't eat days before ending it.

Older brothers, will this ever stop? Will I ever be able to walk away from a LTR without going through bad / negative emotions?

Some didn't hurt, and some took really long. Where everything was how I wanted it, but she had other plans for the future ( hedonist treadmill / career and I wanted the American dream (stay at home mom)).

@Typo-MAGAshiv But he does not want to bang her any more. He is not trying to impress her with his unbreakable manhood. He wants rid.

In a work setting it helps to use the power language of our day. People are not allowed to hurt each other within the workplace. She is essentially abusing her relationship with an orbiter by making it entirely one sided. He is quite within his rights to say "This hurts, and I want it to stop" and the system will then back him if she transgresses.

You can leave the word "hurt" out or change it slightly if you fear it will shrink your pee pee. I thought it was rather helpful in the work setting where colleagues who hurt each other are punished.

I also really don't see a problem with a man acknowledging his feelings. Being tough is not about having no feelings its about being in control of them.

"Girls can't hurt me" Is one way that the blue pill makes men simp. The blue pill lets women behave badly to men and men are supposed to be rocks that just take it or else they are pussies who can't man up enough. The red pill says "This hurts. I deserve better and I am going to have better"

If you look all pitiful and beg to be left alone its weak. I, however think a man can say "I am not getting anything out of this. It hurts me to be putting myself out there and be ignored and flaked on all the time then have your emotional shit dumped on me. Its one sided and I am out, please do not contact me again" If he says this politely in a manly way it is simply a true statement of his frame. We don't have to act all the time.

Why else does he want rid of a hot woman's presence? Its only because he is only getting misery from her? Why fake this up as anything else? Call it what it is. We are big enough to and the system in this case will actually back him up if she transgresses. If however he appears to be having a pissy fit, flounces out on her and ignores her then the system says he is a bit of a dick to a colleague and backs her.