Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Let me congratulate you for actually trying to seek out advice here. I am pretty sure you wanted honest feedback, so I will be very honest.
If you're atheist, you do not need to find an atheist. That's a dumbass thing to do. Married life will involve a lot of compromises. If you cannot compromise for your husband/wife, you are setting yourself for dissatisfaction and misery. You might want one, but be ready to compromise and adjust.
Your friend circle or your relatives will be the best source if you want to be introduced to solid men who share your values. You will have to filter most of them out (heavily) yourself, but apps are a shit show and a piss poor alternative to real life. Coming to apps....
- Apps are for hook-ups. They are designed to appeal to the primitive parts of your brain. They are easy for a reason. Anytime anything is easy is rarely nourishing in the long run.
Even the conservative ones, the ones that are geared towards marriage or relationships, are not a good substitute for a good social circle because a contact through a good social circle will come vetted already. You will have to weed out a lot of people if you want to get to similar quality and that is assuming that you are mature enough to do it.
When you are young, you do stand a chance of attracting a wide variety of men, but most of that will be sexual attention, which I assume you do not want. The kind of men you say you want are rare in online dating. Similar to women with options, men with options will either exercise it or will look for someone equally as valuable.
- On top of everything mentioned in @lionsmane8's comment, if you want to date with the intention of marriage, I suggest you look for a man to marry ASAP. If you're not ready for it, stay a virgin. "Relationship" is a half measure that is vague by intention so that women do not lose status for not being in a marriage. I don't know your culture, but if it is a traditional one, most men worth marrying will not want a woman who has already been fucked by other men. Yes, they might fuck you as well, but their willingness to commit to you will decrease with each man you've fucked. Don't think we cannot tell promiscuous women from honest ones. We absolutely can and will put you in the proper category.
Just another word of caution: You'll be equally as fucked, if you string men along. Don't be a tease. If you don't think it will work out, let them know and move on. Be decisive. While what I'm recommending here might seem strict, all I'm describing here is just traditional-dating with the intent to marry. Be very clear about your intention for marriage and if you are a virgin, be frank about it after you get to know the guy a little and after you've ascertained that he is trustworthy. You have your age working in your favor. 6 years down the lane, no one will give a shit. You have the luxury of some time, but not much. Do not forget that.
While looking for a man to marry, you will have to choices: an older accomplished man or a man your age who has potential but is not in your league now. You will be shooting yourself in the foot if you look anything else. Exceptions do exist, but be aware that they are called exceptions for a reason.
- Now, coming to the elephant in the room: if you are still a virgin and considering you are attractive, you have high chances of getting a traditional and red pill man. Yes, they do exist. @lurkerhasarisen and @houseoftolstoy are two people whom I know of and pop into my mind immediately. Anyone who knows them will know how high their standards are and should have been. You're better off getting advice from men like them than with most red pill men who are younger and are still figuring it out themselves. If they don't have the time, go through their post and comment history in reddit (or in some archive site in case of lurker).
If you're not a virgin, you have already crossed the Rubicon and you will have to go through a relationship stage to qualify and prove that you're worthy of being a wife. You will be able to get most red pill men, but it will be tougher to get the first category I described above.
Also, from what I've seen here, you seem to have a reasonable head in your shoulder, but I want to reiterate that most men do not give a shit about your education. Men want a woman who is young, attractive and is agreeable. You have the first. If you do not have the other two, work on it.Read More
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--Be sure to check out our baby forum WhereAllTheGoodMenAre. Just like the original, this is where you can submit and comment on essays which addresses the "Where are all the good men?" phenomenon. Personal stories, theories, venting, and even how awesome life is as a MGTOW are all welcomed, but ultimately it is a place to share your male perspective as to why women can't find a "good man", or why good men are avoiding commitment.Read More
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