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--Be sure to check out our baby forum WhereAllTheGoodMenAre. Just like the original, this is where you can submit and comment on essays which addresses the "Where are all the good men?" phenomenon. Personal stories, theories, venting, and even how awesome life is as a MGTOW are all welcomed, but ultimately it is a place to share your male perspective as to why women can't find a "good man", or why good men are avoiding commitment.

Did you guys see the post on <that other website> by the guy looking for advice about his pro-abortion wife? Apparently she informed him that because of the Dobbs decision, she was going on a sex strike "until it's fixed" (whatever that means). The guy is very much a "feminist ally" and he's furious - Furious I say! - about it, so when she told him that she was closing her legs until further notice he thought she was joking, and he laughed at the joke.

She. Was. NOT. Joking.

In fact, she screamed at him and threw a vase at his head. He kept insisting time and time again that he realizes that he's "Not entitled to have sex with his wife," but he thinks it's not fair for her to take her frustrations out on him. He's a "good ally," after all - not one of those deplorables like us - and the last time this issue came up it took 49 years to resolve, and he doesn't want to wait that long before his wife lets him have sex again. Of course she told him to sleep on the couch, too. He decided to go to a hotel instead.

I'm R-E-A-L-L-Y trying not to break Rule #1 here. At least he left his wedding ring with the note he left her when he left the house.

Most of the comments draw the line at throwing vases, but there are a shocking number that at least partially excuse her actions on the grounds that she might be terrified of getting pregnant, even though they live in a pro-abortion state and he's had a vasectomy. (Come to think of it... that may be the reason: it's harder to cuckold a sterile guy if you can't get an abortion before your pregnancy starts showing.) Several people accused him of voting for Donald Trump and thus being deserving of what she did. He denied it, although he admitted that he's not as far to the left as she is, and he said that he voted third-party. He then apologized for "throwing his vote away" rather than voting the way she did.

Still trying. R-E-A-L-L-Y trying.

That didn't stop a lot of the usual piling on. Quite a few people told him to appease her by doing things like expressing his outrage on social media, getting involved in electing Democratic politicians, writing letters, and meeting with their congressional representative. As for the violence, he just needs to understand her feelings and go to marriage counseling. Only a couple of people said some variation of, "Flip that around and see if you still feel the same."

I saw exactly one person point out that if she's withdrawing "To have and to hold" then he gets to revisit "Forsaking all others"... but even then he didn't link it to their marriage or her vows: the suggestion was to "open" the marriage. The central point about marriage was completely absent: marriage legitimizes sex. At its core it's a straight-up trade: exclusivity for access. If either is absent then the marriage exists in name only.

Friendly reminder:

Do not be a good man for modern women. They do not want or respect good men.

1. They willingly participate in a market that gives good men bad outcomes and rewards fuckboys.

2. Their actions say "I want the drummer to get me pregnant in the back of a van", no matter what their words say. (Ignore what they say, watch what they do!)

3. Modern women fear what they would have to become to get the commitment of good men.

4. Every woman has had at least one good man in her life that she has passed on who she sees as "just a friend."

(As an aside, I'm at my local dive bar drinking coffee and I'm seeing #4 happen RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME. This doughy man is fawning over a local "hawt" girl, buying her drinks, and straight simping. The girl invited ME over to day drink. Disgusting.)