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Ever met a girl you were willing to drop your other plates for?
I'm wondering if you guys ever met women who were of such quality and with whom you had such great compatibility that it was worth it to drop your other plates/become exclusive?
Personally I'd like a family at some point, and I can imagine that it's likely impractical/unwise to still fuck around having young kids and would probably be willing to let go of other women.
However, that's probably 5 years away, assuming I meet the right woman.
I'm just cynical towards myself that I'll even be able to let go of the thrill of chasing tail/optionality when I arrive at that point. Because it is super addictive. I already have achieved financial independence at a very young age and pretty much the only things that are of interest/stimulate me now is being with my family/couple close friends doing cool shit, some intellectual pursuits and a significant part of my days is managing multiple women.
Guessing that quite a few veterans here have given up monogamy altogether precisely because of this & the fact that they have become so picky most women no longer qualify as anything more than plates.
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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Think this year may be the year that I go to the Menin Gate to see the last post. Not only out of respect for the dead, but for respect for my family.
I've been to Vimy Ridge, and that was quite moving and emotional.
Think this year I may drive across the WW1 front lines, up to the Ypres cemeteries.
My grandfather always wanted to take me there. Sadly he never lived to fulfill that. Feel like it's my duty to make that happen.
@Typo-MAGAshiv I have as of late. I’ve met about 5 or so since that post. All liberal. Could be coincidence but I doubt it.
1 i met at a brewery, slept with her night we met - planned a date, 3 days later I confirmed date and she said “I don’t think we’re on the same page. You haven’t texted me in 3 days”
3 others were at bars and one at dog park.
Slept with 3/5, 1 was low interest it seemed when scheduling date and another I wasn’t feeling.
In summary; feminism is great to sleep with women. Horrible for anything consistent
I had a girl telling me that she is afraid of me. I would forget it promptly till she can stop seeing me anytime and I actually told her she better do if she can't meet my standards, coz otherwise she wastes the time.
But then yesterday I have seen @MattyAnon mentioning that women are absolutely afraid of a man that deals with shit in calm calculated cold manner.
Maybe I'm not that cold, but when it comes to some resolutions I was /am quite merciless.
Has anyone ever tried #BDSM in a threesome?
I was thinking about it, but didn't have a time to research and now I run out of the time.
I spelled that correctly and the Deep State edited my words to make me look dumber than I already am!
Thought I was going crazy and called attention to this a few weeks ago. Many others confirmed. After an update or something, autocorrect started performing way worse, like the tech suddenly regressed by nearly 10 years. It flat out changes words you already typed unbidden, and the suggestions look like random word salad. You really have to watch as you type, to not assume the mantle of its sudden onset retardation.
Hell, just a few minutes ago I was trying to properly insult Typo, and it fixed it to call him a Virginia. And just now, changed the first word of this paragraph to he'll.
Had one of my plates break today which was a bit out of the blue.
Randomly got a text from her saying she has feelings for me, and she can no longer do casual. She knows I'm not looking for anything serious, so it's best that we don't see each other anymore.
I know all plates break eventually, but I'm honestly quite surprised by this one. She has given no indication whatsoever that she had feelings for me. Everything was pretty strictly transactional.
