...SOMEhow.

@Felix-Brohier

And ngl man, I have no idea where to begin with game and all that stuff. I'm an introvert in general, being around people is exhausting. And I just don't like talking to people either. Don't like them very much. So yeah.

Fellow introvert here. Also a misanthrope.

You'll need to get good at it. It's an essential life skill.

Once you start getting good at it, you'll find you enjoy it more than you expect. You'll still need your alone time, but you'll come to enjoy the connections you make (sexual, platonic, professional, etc).

Start small. Read books on being a good conversationalist. I'm sure there are YouTube channels on the topic as well.

And always leave time for yourself. Don't try to become an extrovert when you just aren't; treat conversing as a skill. Nothing more or less.

@Felix-Brohier

Complete noob to all this here, looking for advice.

Alright, so long story short, I'm from a third world country in South Asia, born and raised. 6'0, 83kg, skinny fat. I'm employed and I recently started doing Muay Thai in weekends. I'm 22, and I've never really had a girlfriend or anything like that, but I do want to start fucking women.

I completely understand and agree with everything that is discussed on here, but I think the problem is execution - most girls over here aren't fluent in English, and I'm not all that fluent in the local language. And most of them are hellbent on marriage and shit, so it's hard to find a thing to fuck.

Again, complete noob here idk. Hit me with your best advice. Not a big social media guy so I probably typed this all out wrong but eh

While local girls tend to seek a future husband, foreign girls will oftentimes be more receptive to a casual fling. Keep at the Martial arts, get a solid 7+ hours of sleep, and work yourself up to be a good sparring partner for the guys looking to go pro. If it's an option open to you, spend some time and energy hitting up the tourist spots.

Regardless of which path you take, you should consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.