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Read MorePuer Aeternus - criticism on the Red Pill
Today I came across an interesting video by HealthyGamerGG which discusses aspects of young people today never fully growing up and always striving to live a fantasy life - puer aeterni - or in English - eternal boys, a concept developed by Carl Jung.
Some of the remarks did resonate with me and my own behavior, especially when I was younger.
This person criticizes the Red Pill and even mentions terms like spinning plates, non-committance, as basically just being the inability to take responsibility for life and not accepting that life is not always fun and games. In other words, he argues that what guys do with “spreading the seed, being an alpha male” is basically just a rationalization for being psychologically stuck in childhood. He touches upon a term called Don Juanism, which was described in a psychology book 100 years ago, which basically, as I understand, means catching oneitis for new girls, which would be the opposite of red pill though.
I think that he accurately explains the majority of people initially coming to places like this forum here, however, it misses the mark of the end goal of red pill that people teach here - complete self-reliance and absence of seeking external validation/detachment.
In summary, he argues that the red pill is actually blue pill, since we live in fantasy land, while the real red pill is to work a boring life and accept that that is what life is.
Rant begins around 47:00:
https: //www. youtube. com/watch? v=e0ec2-E5Xq8
I doubt you regret the sex.
She was arguably my worst sexual partner
I've never enjoyed fucking someone less than her. I wouldn't have looked back too fondly at the what should have been a 20 minute one night stand
Yes, i reget not making it a one night stand and giving her more
Professional narcissist
She was a pro. As if she trained herself to be one. It was next level clinical narcissism combined with an actual strategy. Like FDS steroids level
professional narcissist
She got paid for narcissism?!
partially regret fucking
I doubt you regret the sex.
If you had fucked her and never seen her again, she'd be a fond memory.
You regret getting involved with her. You regret giving her a relationship.
Important distinction.
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I also partially regret fucking a professional narcissist but I learned a lot from it so I can't say i regret it
I got out of that virtually unscathed and learned so many life lessons and some massive quality of life improvements and boundaries
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I regretted fucking two chicks that falsely accused me and there were more than enough sufficient red flags for me to avoid fucking them in the first place
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@Typo-MAGAshiv My reaction upon reading it was that this guy has very limited, if any, experience with women and dating. Looks like you had the same reaction.
@Mate1212 I've regretted giving relationships to unworthy women
I've never regretted sex, not even when I harpooned a whale.
@Typo-MAGAshiv is spot on. But I decided to spend time breaking things down in a bit more detail for you.
It is a bit long because I quote you and there are character limits (for some fucking reason). So here is my response in a blog post.
Enjoy