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carnold03

5 days ago  TheRedPill

@Chantfire

BTW @carnold03 how did you come accross this book?

There's not much to tell. Years ago I learned about "The System: The Dating Dictionary" through the late authors "Doc Love" advice columns that were mirrored on several sites including "Men's Health" magazine's website. While I thought his name was silly and the book pricey, his advice was always spot on.

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Chantfire

5 days ago  TheRedPill

BTW @carnold03 how did you come accross this book?

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Bozza

6 days ago  TheRedPill

@Typo-MAGAshiv Nah she was cool about it. She said I should have told her at the time.

Looking back she was a chad chaser and I must have seemed like a chad.

6ft 2. Older than her. Waltzed into her friendship group one day where all of the guys knew and loved me. Instant high social proof. Managed to lay her with 0 game.

I doubt she would have been as attracted when we met if she knew I was a virgin.

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Typo-MAGAshiv

6 days ago  TheRedPill

@Bozza was she angry about it?

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Bozza

6 days ago  TheRedPill

@Typo-MAGAshiv

Sounds a bit similar to my story. I lost my virginity at 19 and ended up dating the girl. I was pretty blue pill back then.

It wasn't until about a year into our relationship she asked me how many women I'd been with before her. She'd asked me before but I'd always skirted around it. I decided to tell her the truth that she was actually my first.

She was genuinely mind blown. "So the first time we had sex I took your virginity?" Yes, yes you did. She couldn't believe it.

Basically did the same thing as you. Fake it til you make it. Pretended like I'd done it a million times before.

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Typo-MAGAshiv

6 days ago  TheRedPill

@Bozza fuck, I was a) a late bloomer, and b) started off trying to find a fellow virgin to marry and do things "The Right Way"™, so I remained a virgin until I was 22. I then made up for lost time over the next 2 years until I met my wife.

Most women assumed I was far more experienced than I was, because I just acted like I'd been there before. No nervous stumbling, etc.

CC: @Biily-thekid

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Bozza

6 days ago  TheRedPill

@Typo-MAGAshiv @Biily-thekid

Virginity is one of those things thats a huge deal at the time, but once you've had a few lays it's no longer a big deal anymore.

By the time you get to your 20s everyone just automatically assumes you've had a bunch of lays and no-one cares.

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Typo-MAGAshiv

6 days ago  TheRedPill

@Biily-thekid most dudes' virginity losses are kind of lame.

You'll be fine.

what should I say if im ever confronted with how I lost my virginity

Unless she's a church girl who expects you to be a virgin just like her (never met one of these in my entire life), she'll neither ask nor care.

I'm going to clue you in: women hate male virgins, and want an experienced man.

Now go forth and gain more experience!

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Lionsmane8

6 days ago  TheRedPill

@Biily-thekid

Short term everything looks catastrophic and permanent.

Just do your homework and stay out of trouble.

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Biily-thekid

6 days ago  TheRedPill

@Lionsmane8 will me improving cause the shame to die down because atm im feeling like the shame means that no matter how hard I try all of my improvement will be in vain

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