The other night my girlfriend told me her ex fwb hit her up.
He double texted before she responded a few days later with “are you okay”. They had a small conversation before she blocked him.
Today he hit her up on snap asking why she blocked him. She told me and said “not sure if I want to entertain him or not”. I told her I was getting tired so ima hang up.
I wasn’t sure what my course of action should have been and was too tired to keep her entertained with it. Was this the best thing I could have done?
How can I (18) get rid of anxiety induced Ed?
I have anxiety when it comes to sleeping with women. I’m able to attract women pretty easily to the point where they will even try to make me sleep with them.
but whenever the sex the part comes, I start to get anxious. Everything is fun and games till then. I’m barley turned on and I get “tired”. I’ll still be able to initiate easily but I physically can not get hard
Thankfully it hasn’t taken a huge hit in my confidence because I know what I’m doing when everything is working well. I don’t watch porn, workout 5/6 times a week, and eat nutritious food. The last time I had sex was 2 nights ago different girl but I lasted nowhere long as I usually would.
I’m not sure what the anxiety stems from but how do I make it go away?
@arakouzo thank you I appreciate it. I take magnesium/zinc pills as well as fish oil supplements.
I think you’re right and it is a psychological thing. I just don’t understand what’s up and it’s very frustrating.
At least I know where to start so once again thank you.
Why can’t I (18m) finish?
The past two times I’ve had sex with two different women, I was not able to finish.
I was able to get them off multiple times orally and with my fingers but when it was time to go in, I lasted a good 7 minutes before switching positions and not getting it back up (used to last atleast 20)
I ruled out performance anxiety because I’m confident in my bedroom skills but lasting this short is starting to make me second guess my skills.
I know it is not PIED because I don’t watch porn. On the rare occasion I do masturbate, I last around 4 rounds which is how much i used to be at in bed.
As for health, I lift daily and eat as much nutritious food as I can that fit in my daily macros.
I have no idea what’s up with me any ideas would be a great starting point to figuring out what’s wrong.
Read More@Zavss So does this mean that a lack of shit tests means low interest or high interest? I’ve been on a date once where she gave no shittests but I got the lay first night.
Has anyone noticed increased aggression/rudeness by people after increasing smv?
I feel like I have a higher smv than most people my age after spending lots of time grinding. I noticed that people, mainly girls or feminine men, tend be a lot more “joking” (rude) than before whether it is hitting my arms, bumping into me, or banter. I try my best to stay non reactive or play back but it gets annoying when I want to have a genuine convo and it turns into banter