@DanielLarson This happens now and again. Sometimes even with women you fucked just fine before and after. As you noticed, the remedy is not to raise a fuss about it, just chill for a bit and the problem will solve itself before too long.
Trick is just to play it off chill and routine. I'd avoid explanations like nervous/anxious/tired etc. Just act dismissive, mention boners can be unpredictable, maybe suggest yours has poor taste for going soft with her, but after all the little guy is blind and all. Usually spooning and cuddling for a few is all I ever did as a "remedy" and was back in the game within a matter of minutes.
Whatever you do, don't get all in your head about it. Trying to conjure a boner on demand is like trying to make an unfamiliar cat come to you. The harder you try, the more elusive your goal becomes. Ignore it for a few and it'll be rubbing your leg.Read More
I Couldn’t cum with new LTR
Things got frisky but halfway through I went soft and didn’t cum. She seemed really offended so I said I was just nervous but she still seemed offended. Ended up getting back into it after half an hour ish and came that time and she acted normal and pretended the going soft incident didn’t happen. What’s the best way to proceed after that? I’m 22 and don’t watch porn but I’m on medications that make it harder to orgasm. Saying I was nervous seemed like a better idea than leaving her offended or explaining all about meds, not sure if that was the right call though